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irritated.. but i should be excited.. rant

so, tomorrow night my FI and I are flying back to my hometown (Fayetteville, GA) for our engagement party that is being held at my Family home (it was my father's house, but my father died almost a year ago) on Saturday evening.i must say i'm pretty excited.

however, since 10 AM this morning (it's abut 3:15 PM now) i have gotten 12 text messages, 7 phone calls, 5 facebook messages, and 8 Direct Messages on Twitter asking me if my engagement is off! i found out that somebody who i was friends with (who was supposed to be a BM in my wedding, but i recently kicked her out for her poor behavior) was actually calling people and telling them that i broke the engagement and that I am moving back to Georgia! (we live in Michigan) like how old are we???

it's like, i'm already angry/upset with you about the trouble you caused over the holidays and you think doing THIS was going to make me like you again? really?

i think the funnier part is she keeps trying to be included on my wedding activities! lol. since i'm going to be in Georgia for a few days, my BMs and i decided to start looking at BMs dresses so that they could get ideas about what style dresses for them. the ex-BM has called/texted and FBed all of them trying to figure out where we are going on Sunday. "i didn't get the text that Jess sent out about meeting up. what time & where?" is the message all my BMs got from the ex-BM lol. keep in mind all of my BMs know exactly what happened why the i am no longer friends with the ex-BM.

i guess some people are just extra petty!

*rant over*
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Re: irritated.. but i should be excited.. rant

  • brittany634brittany634 member
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    edited January 2013

    You kicked her out of your party- a friendship ending move, why do you care what she's doing? Tell people it's not true and move on.

    Edit: Got her confused with another girl.
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  • You kicked her out of your BP? You don't sound any more mature than she is. 
  • I'm sorry for your loss.

    Try to relax and enjoy your RD / vacation.

    Calmly and politely tell your guests that there was a misunderstanding and the wedding plans are still on. Don't pay too much attention to your ex - friend. She's dying for attention and to get any kind of feeling out of you, don't give it to her; be the bigger person.




  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_irritated-but-i-should-be-excited-rant?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:9cb21109-1cb8-4602-b306-de6bc04291f6Post:37c04164-bfa9-4d6a-aae7-edc0e291bbd3">Re: irritated.. but i should be excited.. rant</a>:
    [QUOTE]Chit Chat ran you off so you come here with your pointless antics. You kicked her out of your party- a friendship ending move, why do you care what she's doing? Tell people it's not true and move on.
    Posted by brittany634[/QUOTE]

    ummm.. who is "Chit Chat?" nobody ran/runs me anywhere? lol
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    [QUOTE]You kicked her out of your BP? You don't sound any more mature than she is. 
    Posted by misssunshine17[/QUOTE]

    she started trying to destroy my marriage before it even happens? pretty sure that's more than enough reason to drop her from my BP and my life.
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  • brittany634brittany634 member
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    edited January 2013
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_irritated-but-i-should-be-excited-rant?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:9cb21109-1cb8-4602-b306-de6bc04291f6Post:e52af773-762f-4630-8241-566001539857">Re: irritated.. but i should be excited.. rant</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: irritated.. but i should be excited.. rant : ummm.. who is "Chit Chat?" nobody ran/runs me anywhere? lol
    Posted by MrsJoshuaParker4[/QUOTE]


    how is she trying to ruin your marriage?
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    [QUOTE]I'm sorry for your loss. Try to relax and enjoy your RD / vacation. Calmly and politely tell your guests that there was a misunderstanding and the wedding plans are still on. Don't pay too much attention to your ex - friend. She's dying for attention and to get any kind of feeling out of you, don't give it to her; be the bigger person.
    Posted by mcda04[/QUOTE]

    i think word of mouth got back around that my wedding is still on. at least i'm hoping anyways.. totally been ignoring everything since xmas eve, but don't play with my wedding! lol
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  • edited January 2013
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: irritated.. but i should be excited.. rant : the board Chit Chat and how is she trying to ruin your marriage?
    Posted by brittany634[/QUOTE]

    started spreading false rumors that my FI cheated on me over 4th of July. funny part is when he "cheated" we were actually in GA, hanging out with her & her son's father. (i didn't know she was the one who started that until way after the fact.) that didn't blow up the way she wanted. so she started telling people the miscarriage i had almost 2 years ago was not my FI's baby (it definitely was. i was even in MI when i got pregnant and even if it wasn't.. why is she bringing it up 2 years later?) and told everybody that everytime i'm in GA, i cheat my FI (never have, never cheated on ANYBODY i ever dated either), supposedly my marriage isn't going to last. she even tried to get this girl to say she slept with my FI when i was in NY in August at my grandmother's funeral! and all of her antics were just off the chain!

    my FI and i were fighting constantly, i find out from 2 of my BMs (both my sisters) that the ex-BM is saying it..  some things that were over heard at a mutual friend's birthday party right after Thanksgiving and a screenshot of a text message that got out.. i don't have time for the drama. it really reminds me of like 10th grade. so i dropped her. i have zero tolerance for it.
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  • Why do you care what shes doing? You're letting her cause all these things. You're letting it get to you.

    Also- if you're fiance cheated on you, you have alot bigger problems.
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    [QUOTE]Why do you care what shes doing? You're letting her cause all these things. You're letting it get to you. Also- if you're fiance cheated on you, you have alot bigger problems.
    Posted by brittany634[/QUOTE]

    i know Josh didn't cheat.. it's not in him. besides, he doesn't have the time lol.

    i honestly really don't gove 2 sh!ts what my exBM has to say. i just don't appreciate her trying to interfere with my wedding plans because she decided to show her a$$!

    all because i "told" on her.. (didn't know i did, but she lies to much, she forgot to cover the lie i guess by cluing other people in?)
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  • When I was in high school, I cared what people said behind my back and got all worked up about it.  But I'm a mature adult now and people can say what they want.  I know what's true and so do those closest to me.  

    Sure, it sucks if someone decides to spread lies.  But don't get so worked up about it.  That's what she's trying to accomplish by spreading these rumors.  You coming on here ranting about it means she got what she wanted.  Just ignore her.  She's not worth your time and energy.
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    [QUOTE]So <strong>WHY was this person a BM to begin with</strong> and WHY do your family and friends believe her when she says outlandish crap like this?   Oh wait, it's probably because from what I can tell everyone you know has the emotional maturity of a high school freshman.
    Posted by StageManager14[/QUOTE]

    she didn't used to be this way honestly. i have no idea what's going with her. it's like she had a baby, went through post-partum (sp?) or whatever and she's lost her f*ckng mind! i think other people are slowly starting to catch on to her. it sucks, but i can't associate myself with people like her.. like i understand she didn't have the best circumstances growing up, but damn girl, get it together! she has a two-year-old! and another one on the way.
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    [QUOTE]When I was in high school, I cared what people said behind my back and got all worked up about it.  But I'm a mature adult now and people can say what they want.  I know what's true and so do those closest to me.   Sure, it sucks if someone decides to spread lies.  But don't get so worked up about it.  That's what she's trying to accomplish by spreading these rumors.  You coming on here ranting about it means she got what she wanted.  Just ignore her.  She's not worth your time and energy.
    Posted by lls31[/QUOTE]

    i just don't appreciate her trying to mess up my wedding and my marriage for real. i'm sure if it was happening to you, you wouldn't be to happy either.
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  • OP, you realize this is what she WANTS, right? She's trying to get under your skin. Don't let her. Just enjoy your trip with your FI and avoid her. It's not worth getting upset over.

    And if you continue getting messages from people asking if the wedding is still on, set them straight and leave it at that. Nicely. Like "What is this I'm hearing?! Your wedding's off?!" and you reply "I don't know how that rumor started, but I assure you that I'm still marrying the love of my life [FI's name]. No worries! :)"
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    [QUOTE]When I was in high school, I cared what people said behind my back and got all worked up about it.  But I'm a mature adult now and people can say what they want.  I know what's true and so do those closest to me.   Sure, it sucks if someone decides to spread lies.  But don't get so worked up about it.  That's what she's trying to accomplish by spreading these rumors.  You coming on here ranting about it means she got what she wanted.  Just ignore her.  She's not worth your time and energy.
    Posted by lls31[/QUOTE]

    <div>Brain twins!</div>
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  • ConKFA- what kind of pup do oyu have? He reminds me of mine a little


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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: irritated.. but i should be excited.. rant : <strong>i just don't appreciate her trying to mess up my wedding and my marriage for real. </strong>i'm sure if it was happening to you, you wouldn't be to happy either.
    Posted by MrsJoshuaParker4[/QUOTE]

    <div>I'm not sure I understand how these rumors are going to ruin your wedding and your marriage.  You and your FI trust each other, correct?  If you do, then I don't really see the problem.</div>
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  • Brit - she's a pit bull mix. Not sure what she's mixed with, but I suspect monkey or cat.

    Your puppy is so pretty!!!
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    [QUOTE]ConKFA- what kind of pup do oyu have? He reminds me of mine a little
    Posted by brittany634[/QUOTE]

    your pup is cuteeeeeee. lol. i love puppies.
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    [QUOTE]Brit - she's a pit bull mix. Not sure what she's mixed with, but I suspect monkey or cat. Your puppy is so pretty!!!
    Posted by ConKFA319[/QUOTE]

    Thanks! They say he's a catahula- however I see more greyhound than catahula, He's almost 2 and is only about 40lbs- catahulas are HUGE!
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  • I'm going to take this story at face value, and if you were ready to end the friendship, then I guess you did the right thing by removing her from your BP. If she truly is this awful, ending the friendship was a good move.
    Be an adult, move forward, and focus on your relationship, because when the wedding is all over, that's what you're left with.
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: irritated.. but i should be excited.. rant : Thanks! They say he's a catahula- however I see more greyhound than catahula, He's almost 2 and is only about 40lbs- catahulas are HUGE!
    Posted by brittany634[/QUOTE]

    <div>I think mine might have a little catahoula in her, too, actually. They have that wasp waist like greyhounds, and my girl is definitely NOT shaped like a full pit. She's also almost 3 (her "birthday" is on the 20th), and she's about 70 pounds. 70 pounds of snuggle monster.</div>
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: irritated.. but i should be excited.. rant : If your marriage can be damaged by a 3rd party spreading rumors to other people, you have serious relationship issues.
    Posted by StageManager14[/QUOTE]

    <div>ALLLLL this.</div>
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  • This sounds like some serious drama.  I can't imagine ever being involved in anything like this or having a "friend" like this.  
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: irritated.. but i should be excited.. rant : I think mine might have a little catahoula in her, too, actually. They have that wasp waist like greyhounds, and my girl is definitely NOT shaped like a full pit. She's also almost 3 (her "birthday" is on the 20th), and she's about 70 pounds. 70 pounds of snuggle monster.
    Posted by ConKFA319[/QUOTE]

    Yeah, riff is smaller, idk. I love him though! he's my baby. We have a jack russell too!
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  • edited January 2013
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: irritated.. but i should be excited.. rant : Actually, I'd be laughing my butt off. She would instantly be the butt of every joke in my family, though I think it's odd she has so many of your family's phone numbers.
    Posted by Harry87[/QUOTE]

    she is now lol. i think word of mouth got back around the rumor was started because she was kicked out of the bridal party. she had everybody's numbers because she was around my family for so long (since we were like 8) and considering my BMs are all family (2 sisters, 2 nieces & my cousin).

    it's whatever. she made an a$$ of herself. we made it to Georgia last night and i'm looking forward to my party tomorrow evening :)
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  • In Response to Re:irritated.. but i should be excited.. rant:[QUOTE]You kicked her out of your BP? You don't sound any more mature than she is.nbsp; Posted by misssunshine17[/QUOTE]
    whatever it is the girl did was clearly worth ending the friendship, so yeah she kicked her out. You telling me you would keep someone you are no longer friends with in your BP? doubt it
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  • In Response to Re:irritated.. but i should be excited.. rant:[QUOTE]Why do you care what shes doing? You're letting her cause all these things. You're letting it get to you. Also if you're fiance cheated on you, you have alot bigger problems. Posted by brittany634[/QUOTE]
    Honey plz re read...she says it was not true, just a rumor the ex bm started
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re:irritated.. but i should be excited.. rant: Honey plz re read...she says it was not true, just a rumor the ex bm started
    Posted by aquari0216[/QUOTE]

    lol. it's whatever. they always pick at me on these boards.. i have no clue why i even bother. smh.
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