*everyone else on SB*

kikibaby

Hiiii I'm a PW!

But seriously, I want to say I'm sorry for bringing any 'drama' here for those of you who came here to get away from it.  This was something I just honestly felt I wanted to talk to bbycakes about.  I used to consider her somewhat of a friend, and if I knew her IRL I would have happily sat down and had this same talk over coffee/a beer.  Some things are just really hard to shove under the rug.

Anyway, back to your regularly scheduled programming.  Where are my buddies healy and cottagecheese?  Let's talk about something fun.

laurenclaire1386

Well I'm not Healy or Cottagestillmarried cheese, but I'll do, right? Also, I thought the bbycakes callout was much needed and I appreciate your starting the thread.

andy71781

Can I make all of my BMs wear a t-shirt with my face on it that says "SHE'S THE BOSS" from now until my wedding?

nda_roxybabe

Helllooooo. My boss will be here soon....ugh.

kikibaby

I want to make the BM's wear shirts that say 'Lindsey's Bitches'. 

[Deleted User]

I hate my job today.

luckyme502

I discovered that I love bacon yesterday.  So, today I made myself a bacon and cheese omelette.  I see lots of bacon in my future. 

andy71781

I kind of really love that they are called BMs.  As in bowel movements.  As in poop. 

TurtlesAllTheWayDown

I hate my job everyday.

And I secretly want one of those "Bride" hoodies even though it's a total waste of money and fabric.

nda_roxybabe

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_everyone-else-sb?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:a9e75e00-8a5c-4dd0-8fac-9929e1182816Post:71a95172-82ac-4f33-8adc-cad76ab57f41">Re: *everyone else on SB*</a>:
[QUOTE]I hate my job today.
Posted by cew515[/QUOTE]

This. Everyday.

ricksang

Are you really sorry?

[Deleted User]

The lady who shiits raw onions is being especially mean today. I just really want to kick her square in the box. Hard.

andy71781

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_everyone-else-sb?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:a9e75e00-8a5c-4dd0-8fac-9929e1182816Post:ee85d801-9fe2-4226-b87b-7275da101805">Re: *everyone else on SB*</a>:
[QUOTE]I hate my job everyday. And I secretly want one of those "Bride" hoodies even though it's a total waste of money and fabric.
Posted by msmerymac[/QUOTE]

I'm getting one.  Shhh don't tell.  One of my BMs knows me better than I know myself and she asked me if I wanted it.  I get it this weekend at my bach party.  Its going to say "Future Mrs Wiltrout"  My FI would make fun of me forever if he knew I had a hand in it.

ricksang

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_everyone-else-sb?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:a9e75e00-8a5c-4dd0-8fac-9929e1182816Post:08372ec0-2a2f-4e9b-8e63-052c2d0be2f2">Re: *everyone else on SB*</a>:
[QUOTE]The lady who shiits raw onions is being especially mean today. I just really want to kick her square in the box. Hard.
Posted by cew515[/QUOTE]

Umm Cew her asshole probably burns, give her a break! K?

TurtlesAllTheWayDown

Hmm, maybe I can wear it to my b-party AND at getting ready the day-of. I may be able to justify this.

kikibaby

I want one, too mery!  I saw some cute ones at David's Bridal, but they were all teeny tiny. 

luckyme502

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_everyone-else-sb?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:a9e75e00-8a5c-4dd0-8fac-9929e1182816Post:6939d718-7d87-4390-aef8-62a47d79fe92">Re: *everyone else on SB*</a>:
[QUOTE]Hmm, maybe I can wear it to my b-party AND at getting ready the day-of. I may be able to justify this.
Posted by msmerymac[/QUOTE]

I want one too!  I think I will go ahead and order one.  You are only going to get married once (okay, in my case twice!) I say go for it! 

andy71781

Its so worth it - really   Try ordering some online - I think zazzle might be a good site.  Some places charge a lot though fyi.  I'll obviously post pics of me in mine after this weekend. 

nyrek

There isn't one person I know IRL on this board...but I can guarantee that not a one of you are perfect. Nor am I.

I've done things and said things I wasn't proud of.  Things I looked back on later and was like "Sh!t...shouldn't have said that." But if 10 or 20 people or so started following me to other areas of my life to keep calling me out on it saying "You did this...."  "You were mean"   blah blah blah...I'd be pretty pissed. 

Whatever went down on some other board...had nothing to do with me...this board...or 95% of the people on here. 

Many of us have had interactions with bbyckes that would lead us to believe she's a pretty down-to-earth okay person.  So she was mean to someone, and wrong in doing so.  Ok!  You've called her out on it and made everyone aware of it. 

Got it....



What's that saying? Those who live in glass houses...

kikibaby

Really, nyrek? 

A) You don't know the situation or the people involved.

This thread WAS to move on.  As well all had.

Blueyed228

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_everyone-else-sb?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:a9e75e00-8a5c-4dd0-8fac-9929e1182816Post:a3ed97c5-7933-4dda-a3de-3e8d54d43434">Re: *everyone else on SB*</a>:
[QUOTE]Really, nyrek?  A) You don't know the situation or the people involved. B) This thread WAS to move on.  As well all had.
Posted by kikibaby[/QUOTE]

In fairness, most of us on this board do not really follow the E board that often.  I didnt know what the post was about either untill someone explained.

I only post on E once and awhile.  I think thats why there are a few people on this board who are confused.

That being said, its none of my business, and I dont have an opinion on it since I wasnt there, but I would hardly fault anyone for asking what was up.

ricksang

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_everyone-else-sb?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:a9e75e00-8a5c-4dd0-8fac-9929e1182816Post:e5f98b95-8c87-4d3c-a6e1-ac84cd6256a0">Re: *everyone else on SB*</a>:
[QUOTE]There isn't one person I know IRL on this board...but I can guarantee that not a one of you are perfect. Nor am I. I've done things and said things I wasn't proud of.  Things I looked back on later and was like "Sh!t...shouldn't have said that." But if 10 or 20 people or so started following me to other areas of my life to keep calling me out on it saying "You did this...."  "You were mean"   blah blah blah...I'd be pretty pissed.  Whatever went down on some other board...had nothing to do with me...this board...or 95% of the people on here.  Many of us have had interactions with bbyckes that would lead us to believe she's a pretty down-to-earth okay person.  So she was mean to someone, and wrong in doing so.  Ok!  You've called her out on it and made everyone aware of it.  Got it.... What's that saying? Those who live in glass houses...
Posted by nyrek[/QUOTE]

You are good people.

Starmusica

probably a dumb question since I have been on TK for a few months now.. but what is FFF. I ask here because it was mentioned in relation to all of this...

While I only pop in and out of E and have only posted a couple times... kiki- I actually think you may have done the right thing by attempting to absolve this issue. Since it sounds like all the E posters have migrated here... its better if there isn't a giant elephant floating around this board for all the new posters. Thats just toxic. Whatever anyones opinion is at this point.. at least its all in the open.

laurenclaire1386

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_everyone-else-sb?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:a9e75e00-8a5c-4dd0-8fac-9929e1182816Post:490d2ccb-2282-4c0c-b38a-40d5a91fc523">Re: *everyone else on SB*</a>:
[QUOTE]probably a dumb question since I have been on TK for a few months now.. but what is FFF. I ask here because it was mentioned in relation to all of this... While I only pop in and out of E and have only posted a couple times... kiki- I actually think you may have done the right thing by attempting to absolve this issue. Since it sounds like all the E posters have migrated here... its better if there isn't a giant elephant floating around this board for all the new posters. Thats just toxic. Whatever anyones opinion is at this point.. at least its all in the open.
Posted by Starmusica[/QUOTE]
Flame Free Friday. Say whatever (within reason, no dogging somebody's looks, or really low blows) to whomever. There are rules that a. either no one knows or b. no one cares about. I think it's a little of both.

nyrek

Really, kiki. 

That post had nothing to do with moving on.  It had everything to do with calling someone out on something you dissaproved of. 

ricksang

I call it FlameFULL Fridays

Starmusica

ah. ok. thanks for the clarification

maratea

Just to stick my nose in, I board hop quite a bit, and I was on E the day the whole FFF bbyck thing started. It was not good. And seriously, if you don't know what happened, don't comment, because it was just bad all around.

Anyway, may I AW my dog, because everyone loves puppies. 


This was her when she was about 3 months old.



And now she's all grown up. I feel like a proud mom.

kikibaby

Yeah, FFF is a thing on E (and I've heard a couple of other boards) to talk crap about whatever's bothering you.  I consider it an 'Airing of Greivances' a la Festivus.

Starmusica

I can see how itd be useful and dangerous

laurenclaire1386

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_everyone-else-sb?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:a9e75e00-8a5c-4dd0-8fac-9929e1182816Post:9c3b4f3a-8e60-4602-aee7-d12e3fdc222a">Re: *everyone else on SB*</a>:
[QUOTE]Really, kiki.  That post had nothing to do with moving on.  It had everything to do with calling someone out on something you dissaproved of. 
Posted by nyrek[/QUOTE]
I disagree. The point of it WAS some kind of resolution. Kiki asked questions directly to bbycakes that a lot of people had been wondering anyway. I don't know if you saw the whole situation or not, but I doubt you did. So before you start passing judgment on Kiki or anyone else, it would help for you to have all of the details.