My FI and I got engaged February of 2009. In September of that same year FI's brother proposed to his girlfriend. They have since decided to get married a month and a half before we planned on getting married. We had been planning our wedding for 7 months and all of a sudden they're getting married in early June while ours is at the end of July, 2010. I am still upset about it, especially since it's getting close. I can't help but feel angry every time I think about it.
FI's family lives in Michigan and my family lives in Myrtle Beach. We originally planned on getting married in Myrtle Beach, spending a week on our honeymoon, and then going to Michigan for a week to have another "reception" to let his family who couldn't make it to Myrtle Beach celebrate with us. However, now we have had to change all of those plans, since we don't want to drive to Michigan twice in 2 months.
I know it is petty, but I don't know what to do so that I will be able to look at them for the rest of our lives and not feel a pang of anger.