We are going to a wedding this weekend that H is in as a GM. The groom was one of H's GM. They gave us $150 as a wedding gift. There was no hotel charge and we paid for food for their whole weekend while on the farm for our wedding. H thinks we have to give them what they gave us. The difference is that we have to pay $200 for a hotel for the weekend because it's pretty far away from the house. I think $100 is fine. I'm not dead set on $100, but I also don't think we HAVE to give them what they gave us. I would be fine with $150. What do you guys think.