Let me know if I am being snarky or crazy I can take it. My cousin is my matron of honor, let me just start out by saying I love her to death. I was also her maid of honor. I have been engaged for a year and a half and my cousin has shown that she is excited and cares about my wedding by asking me questions and talking about the wedding. However she rude responses to my plans. For instance she asked what kind of flowers I was using, I said roses, and she said "how original". She asked what the color of the bridesmaid dresses are going to be (my colors are blue and orange) I said probably blue but I havn't decided yet, and her response was "as long as they are not orange". She put me in a hideous puke green dress and she has a problem with orange? She has also asked me at least 10 if not more times about the bridesmaid dresses through text messages or at family functions. I understand that she cares about what she is wearing but it almost seems as if that is all she cares about and I am getting so sick of answering the same questions over and over and over again. It is almost like she thinks if she keeps asking me about the dresses I will change the dresses. Also to tell you about the dresses I like B2 dresses, I am letting all the girls pick their own style, I just want them to be the poly chiffron material so they all match and the color cobalt blue. I want all the girls in short dresses but my marton of honor if more comfortable in a longer dress so I told her she could be special and have a longer dress. I honestly think she is probably just self conscious because I have 3 other girls that are skinny as rails and she is over weight. I understand that and that is why I am letting them all pick out their own style and letting her wear a longer dress, but I just wish she would quit asking me about the dresses. I still have a year to go and her and one of my bridesmaids are trying to get pregnant so we are not going to be getting bridesmaids dresses any time soon and I don;t know how many more times I can answer the same questions. Even my fiance thinks it is getting ridiculous and he is the most laid back person I have ever met. I didn't even respond to her last text about the dresses just cause I feel like it is never going to end. Alright I am done now tell me how rediculous I am being and how I should be happy she cares so much. Thanks ladies!