Sex poll

future-mrs

How old were you when you had sex the first time?  18
How old was your H/bf/Fi? 18
 What is your number? 4.5
What is his?  6
Does he know yours?  Yeah
Are you both ok with this?    Kind of have to be at this point. 
Randomness.  Interesting poll.

Anysunrise

Eheh. I see this not going well for me.

How old were you when you had sex the first time? Heh...14. Barely. It was only once, for a whole 20 seconds, and then not again until I was 16.
How old was your H/bf/Fi? 16
What is your number? 4
What is his? I was number 30.
Does he know yours? Oh yeah. He was less thrilled about me knowing his.
Are you both ok with this? I'm perfectly okay with it, 4 isn't exactly slut-worthy. I'm cool with him having slept with that amount, because well, I reap the benefits, and it's not ridiculously high or anything.

SarahPLiz

I think I want clarification on the 2nd Q. I was thinking it is concerning my current Fi, but I think maybe some people answered it about their first.. I don't know. It really doesn't matter. I don't know the answer either way (sad)

aprovencher21

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_sex-poll?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:c3852778-9571-43cd-bc1e-07cefcb75b0dPost:7aedb2ce-a95f-46ae-ba91-562a57bd2281">Re: Sex poll</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Sex poll : Here's where I'll disagree with you....so long as you weren't getting paid to do it, no worries. Number don't bother me...ever.
Posted by RachNRich[/QUOTE]

Okay I'll agree with you there.....I was trying to pick an outrageous number.  Guess I should have made it a million.  I don't think I know a million guys.

So by being paid do you mean like porn or hooker?

katiewhompus

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_sex-poll?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:c3852778-9571-43cd-bc1e-07cefcb75b0dPost:b740bfca-c2f9-407b-861f-b16269e9a42e">Re: Sex poll</a>:
[QUOTE]Eheh. I see this not going well for me. How old were you when you had sex the first time? Heh...14. Barely. It was only once, for a whole 20 seconds, and then not again until I was 16. How old was your H/bf/Fi? 16 What is your number? 4 What is his? I was number 30. Does he know yours? Oh yeah. He was less thrilled about me knowing his. Are you both ok with this? I'm perfectly okay with it, 4 isn't exactly slut-worthy.<strong> I'm cool with him having slept with that amount, because well, I reap the benefits, and it's not ridiculously high or anything.
</strong>Posted by Anysunrise[/QUOTE]

Ditto this. My 2nd was a virgin before me and honestly, it sucked. Maybe if I had more experience it would have been better but as it was, bleh. I was happy that Dh knew what he was doing, even though I still really didn't.

sarabear23

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_sex-poll?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:c3852778-9571-43cd-bc1e-07cefcb75b0dPost:9192b70f-abd2-43ea-a920-0bdbee8b2e21">Re: Sex poll</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Sex poll : =) You aren't a slut.  I think as long as the number is below 100....no worries.
Posted by aprovencher21[/QUOTE]

Haha, I like the way you think! :)

RachNRich

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_sex-poll?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:c3852778-9571-43cd-bc1e-07cefcb75b0dPost:9e244152-20ce-484d-8657-b0f535683063">Re: Sex poll</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Sex poll : Okay I'll agree with you there.....I was trying to pick an outrageous number.  Guess I should have made it a million.  I don't think I know a million guys. So by being paid do you mean like porn or hooker?
Posted by aprovencher21[/QUOTE]

<div>I'd venture to say hookers here, or rather illegal prostitution to be more specific. </div>

aprovencher21

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_sex-poll?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:c3852778-9571-43cd-bc1e-07cefcb75b0dPost:b0f830a1-d8cd-4374-8cfd-e2f93a2a950e">Re: Sex poll</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Sex poll : I'd venture to say hookers here, or rather illegal prostitution to be more specific. 
Posted by RachNRich[/QUOTE]

I actually have to say that I wish they'd legalize prostitution, regulate it and then tax the crap out of it.  I really don't care if people pay to have sex (as long as the people are genuinely willing).

loop0406

I'm under 100, lol. But I feel like a slut (more than FI)  so I won't be able to participate in this survey. It would be better and easier for a Poll to be posted

loop0406

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_sex-poll?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:c3852778-9571-43cd-bc1e-07cefcb75b0dPost:9a5440c3-a609-4046-83c1-dfb9bad576d2">Re: Sex poll</a>:
[QUOTE]How old were you when you had sex the first time?  18 How old was your H/bf/Fi? 18  What is your number? 4.5 What is his?  6 Does he know yours?  Yeah Are you both ok with this?    Kind of have to be at this point.  Randomness.  Interesting poll.
Posted by future-mrs[/QUOTE]


4.5 ?  LOL, no explanation needed !

KentuckyKate

I was 16, H is my 3rd
H was 23, I was his 1st and only, although he lied to me for over a year because he was embarrassed.
We're cool with each others' histories, but in hindsight, I am glad he lied to me at first.  Virgins freaked me out back then and I probably would have over-analyzed his every move to be clingy and attachedy.

kimheartsscott

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_sex-poll?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:c3852778-9571-43cd-bc1e-07cefcb75b0dPost:9192b70f-abd2-43ea-a920-0bdbee8b2e21">Re: Sex poll</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Sex poll : =) You aren't a slut.  I think as long as the number is below 100....no worries.
Posted by aprovencher21[/QUOTE]

Meh, number is a number.  I don't judge even for that.


How old were you when you had sex the first time?  17
How old was your H/bf/Fi?  16
What is your number?  1
What is his?  1
Does he know yours?  yep.
Are you both ok with this?   of course.

vegasgroom

I'm surprised at the number of people who know their partner's number.  Particularly since the number was also accompanied by "but I don't care."  LOL  If you don't care, why would it have ever come up as a topic of conversation?

Only makes me curious because I truly don't care, and I don't think FI does either, so neither one of us have ever brought it up and until I saw this thread it had not really crossed my mind.  For those that did ask and/or do care, I'm curious why (since it's obviously not something you can change)?

My first was when I was 14, not gonna answer the rest since I either don't know or FI may see my post lol.

aprovencher21

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_sex-poll?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:c3852778-9571-43cd-bc1e-07cefcb75b0dPost:9e733405-9a1e-401c-938f-6b95b2cfae91">Re: Sex poll</a>:
[QUOTE]I'm surprised at the number of people who know their partner's number.  Particularly since the number was also accompanied by "but I don't care."  LOL  If you don't care, why would it have ever come up as a topic of conversation? Only makes me curious because I truly don't care, and I don't think FI does either, so neither one of us have ever brought it up and until I saw this thread it had not really crossed my mind.  For those that did ask and/or do care, I'm curious why (since it's obviously not something you can change)? My first was when I was 14, not gonna answer the rest since I either don't know or FI may see my post lol.
Posted by vegasgroom[/QUOTE]

Um I'm nosey.  I like to know things.  The number of girls he slept with prior to me wouldn't have mattered regardless of the number......I'm just a curious cat.

Blueyed228

How old were you when you had sex the first time? 18

How old was your H/bf/Fi? Not sure, I assume hs since he was a popular hockey player.

What is your number? nunya business ;P

What is his? I dont know

Does he know yours? Absolutely not

Are you both ok with this? I dont care what his sex history is. We met when I was 27 and he was 31.  We certainly were not sitting around waiting for each other our whole lives.

thesuninherhead

The first two are sort of awkward for me to answer because I'm not sure which 'counts' (my first time was whilst drunk as a teen and I was pretty much taken advantage of by a random guy. I don't know his age. The first time that was consensual was when I was 16 and was with my 16 year old boyfriend).

 

What is your number? 4/5 (see above) 

 

What is his? We've talked about it before and I totally forget now... I think it was about 4 but I can't recall. 

 

Does he know yours? Well, I've told him about my sexual history but I'd say his memory would be about as good as mine for his! 

 

Are you both ok with this? Evidently, given abovementioned forgetting! haha. I don't really care how many girls he's been with and he doesn't care about how many guys I've been with. I'm sure we'd both agree that the only thing we really care about is being a better fuuck than the ex's were, number irrelevant! haha. 

BioGirl21

How old were you when you had sex the first time? 20
How old was your H/bf/Fi? 21
What is your number? 1
What is his? 1
Does he know yours? yes
Are you both ok with this? yes

catemeg

How old were you when you had sex the first time?  18

How old was your H/bf/Fi?  14

What is your number?  12

What is his?  We talked about this back when we were just friends, and I remember it being higher than mine but not by much.  Like 14-15?

Does he know yours? Yep, and probably each of their names, though I'm sure he couldn't recall off hand.  We're just really open about this stuff.

Are you both ok with this?  Yep, it was never a question.  We'd both been super safe, and got tested for everything under the sun when we started to get more serious.