wow. there is a difference between snarky and just plain cold-hearted and cruel!

futurepivko

[QUOTE]My FMIL was in town this past weekend and found her attire for the wedding while I was with her. It is ugly and doesn't fit (she thinks she is going to lose a ton of weight). I lied and told her that I liked it. Since I can "snark" here, I just want to say- my mom is going to look SO much better.[/QUOTE]

this was from another knottie on a previous thread......this is sooo mean and cruel hearted! it made me cry!

anyone else agree? there is a BIG difference between snarky and just plain COLD-HEARTED AND CRUEL.

MarriedInAFever

I think the vast majority agreed that poster was an asshat.

JadziaDax

Well, it didn't make me cry but it does sound really cruel.

Nebb

While I do think that was a shitty thing for that poster to say, if thats making you cry you need to buck up a little bit.

Night_Sprite

[QUOTE]While I do think that was a shitty thing for that poster to say, if thats making you cry you need to buck up a little bit.
Posted by Nebb[/QUOTE]
I second the motion.

beatlesgirl25

Yeah OP, I caught your double post at the end of that thread.

I seriously thought this thread was going to be another one complaining about how mean we all are. Whew!

That poster was a douche though, yes.

Blueyed228

All I got from this was blah blah blah

Night_Sprite

Some people love their FI/H in spite of his family, not in addition to.

futurepivko

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_wow-there-difference-between-snarky-just-plain-cruel-hearted?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:c6d547e8-c4c6-43f1-a157-b09a8caa1f95Post:7367d709-80dd-4be6-91f8-64287ea45e36">Re: wow. there is a difference between snarky and just plain cold-hearted and cruel!</a>:
[QUOTE]Some people love their FI/H in spite of his family, not in addition to.
Posted by Night_Sprite[/QUOTE]

i agree. but thats not a reason to be a complete D$#CHE BAG to your FMIL!

beatlesgirl25

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_wow-there-difference-between-snarky-just-plain-cruel-hearted?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:c6d547e8-c4c6-43f1-a157-b09a8caa1f95Post:f164df31-1793-4d88-9836-0b06e3092d6f">Re: wow. there is a difference between snarky and just plain cold-hearted and cruel!</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: wow. there is a difference between snarky and just plain cold-hearted and cruel! : wow.......really!!! me buck up!!! just comes to show how many cruel people there are in this world!
Posted by futurepivko[/QUOTE]

Okay, now you're overreacting.

MarriedInAFever

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_wow-there-difference-between-snarky-just-plain-cruel-hearted?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:c6d547e8-c4c6-43f1-a157-b09a8caa1f95Post:7367d709-80dd-4be6-91f8-64287ea45e36">Re: wow. there is a difference between snarky and just plain cold-hearted and cruel!</a>:
[QUOTE]Some people love their FI/H in spite of his family, not in addition to.
Posted by Night_Sprite[/QUOTE]

:::waves::::

Blueyed228

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_wow-there-difference-between-snarky-just-plain-cruel-hearted?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:c6d547e8-c4c6-43f1-a157-b09a8caa1f95Post:f164df31-1793-4d88-9836-0b06e3092d6f">Re: wow. there is a difference between snarky and just plain cold-hearted and cruel!</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: wow. there is a difference between snarky and just plain cold-hearted and cruel! : wow.......really!!! me buck up!!! just comes to show how many cruel people there are in this world!
Posted by futurepivko[/QUOTE]

Are you calling Nebb cruel?

Night_Sprite

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_wow-there-difference-between-snarky-just-plain-cruel-hearted?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:c6d547e8-c4c6-43f1-a157-b09a8caa1f95Post:57b94a98-83af-4118-aa74-7f4f3f1f4ba8">Re: wow. there is a difference between snarky and just plain cold-hearted and cruel!</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: wow. there is a difference between snarky and just plain cold-hearted and cruel! : i agree. but thats not a reason to be a complete D$#CHE BAG to your FMIL!
Posted by futurepivko[/QUOTE]
Sometimes it is.  Besides, she wasn't a douche to her face, just behind her back.

Blueyed228

Really OP?

Is that how you want to introduce yourself to the regulars on this board?

beatlesgirl25

Just in case... I smell something funny coming.
[QUOTE]this was from another knottie on a previous thread......this is sooo mean and cruel hearted! it made me cry! anyone else agree? there is a BIG difference between snarky and just plain COLD-HEARTED AND CRUEL.
Posted by futurepivko[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE]sorry for being sensitive. i actually LIKE my FMIL. i was thinking of her when i read this. she has self-esteem issues about her weight and the fact that she gets blood clots that prevent her from doing things, etc. and other health issues (and shes a neonatal nurse!!!!!!) and she was talking about finding a dress that flatters her, because she wants to feel good on our wedding day. she also said she doesnt usually wear dresses...just pants....and wants to wear a dress and feel good about herself. I would never lie to her or put her in something that lowers her self-esteem even MORE.

Thats why that post made me cry, and I KNOW the majority agreed this person was a complete b*&#h.

That post just hit really hard[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE]no no no......i dont think everyone is mean!

well...maybe for a few, but really no!


and sorry for the double posting originally......both of those postings made me really angry!!! how people can do that to their FMIL??? I dont know......its true that when you marry your FI you marry into their family![/QUOTE]

Night_Sprite

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_wow-there-difference-between-snarky-just-plain-cruel-hearted?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:c6d547e8-c4c6-43f1-a157-b09a8caa1f95Post:38e885c3-8b89-4d17-bd36-79379cf313f6">Re: wow. there is a difference between snarky and just plain cold-hearted and cruel!</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: wow. there is a difference between snarky and just plain cold-hearted and cruel! : Are you calling Nebb cruel?
Posted by Blueyed228[/QUOTE]
Nebb hurt her little feelers so bad.

futurepivko

ughhhhh..............whatever. All I did was express my opinion.......sorry I didnt do an Introduction on EVERY board.......gracious!

Sorry that there are knotties on this website who are so cruel to their FMIL's and I think thats horrible. Big deal!!!

futurepivko

I dont know what you are expecting to smell funny???????

beatlesgirl25

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_wow-there-difference-between-snarky-just-plain-cruel-hearted?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:c6d547e8-c4c6-43f1-a157-b09a8caa1f95Post:5260cd07-be87-459e-b123-2ce2185409f0">Re: wow. there is a difference between snarky and just plain cold-hearted and cruel!</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: wow. there is a difference between snarky and just plain cold-hearted and cruel! : yeah, and that made it even WORSE!!!!!! I cant believe you agree with what she did!!!!!!! and yeah, maybe I am calling Nebb (Nebb??) cruel....I am even more how shes defending the OP of that mean post!
Posted by futurepivko[/QUOTE]

Are you for real? Nebb wasn't defending that poster in any way, shape or form. She agreed with you. She just said you crying about someone being a douche to their FMIL makes you a little overly sensitive. You need to dial it down a notch or 10.

Blueyed228

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_wow-there-difference-between-snarky-just-plain-cruel-hearted?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:c6d547e8-c4c6-43f1-a157-b09a8caa1f95Post:5260cd07-be87-459e-b123-2ce2185409f0">Re: wow. there is a difference between snarky and just plain cold-hearted and cruel!</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: wow. there is a difference between snarky and just plain cold-hearted and cruel! : yeah, and that made it even WORSE!!!!!! I cant believe you agree with what she did!!!!!!! and yeah, maybe I am calling Nebb (Nebb??) cruel....I am even more how shes defending the OP of that mean post!
Posted by futurepivko[/QUOTE]

Ok Lisa Frank.  Enought with the caps and exclamation points.

If you want rainbows and puppies and butterflies, try a different board.

No one cares what you think of us here.

MarriedInAFever

The poster is question was a bit of a jerk. But you're going to have to go a thicker skin if you want to survive this board and ultimately life.

Night_Sprite

I need her to love me, Blue.  I NEED HER LOVE.  I CAN EVEN TYPE IN ALL CAPS TO BE LIKE HER!!! DON'T YOU SEE HOW MUCH I NEED HER LOVE?!??!?!?

nda_roxybabe

How was Nebb defending op??

Blueyed228

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_wow-there-difference-between-snarky-just-plain-cruel-hearted?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:c6d547e8-c4c6-43f1-a157-b09a8caa1f95Post:bb9f831c-d609-40d8-8484-3196a63909c3">Re: wow. there is a difference between snarky and just plain cold-hearted and cruel!</a>:
[QUOTE]haha Im Lisa Frank? <strong><u>You hair looks like a Lisa Frank artwork gone bad</u></strong>. and<strong><u> I never meant to insult ANYONE personally</u></strong>! Thats not what this thread was about! But whatever!
Posted by futurepivko[/QUOTE]

Anyone?  ANyone?  Bueller?  Bueller?

beatlesgirl25

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_wow-there-difference-between-snarky-just-plain-cruel-hearted?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:c6d547e8-c4c6-43f1-a157-b09a8caa1f95Post:bb9f831c-d609-40d8-8484-3196a63909c3">Re: wow. there is a difference between snarky and just plain cold-hearted and cruel!</a>:
[QUOTE]haha Im Lisa Frank? You hair looks like a Lisa Frank artwork gone bad. and I never meant to insult ANYONE personally! Thats not what this thread was about! But whatever!
Posted by futurepivko[/QUOTE]

Whoa there. Attacking a poster's looks is NEVER okay on this board, and is against Knot regulations. Dude, what is your deal? You come here complaining about a crappy poster, people <em>agree</em> with you, and now you've turned against us all because why? I'm starting to doubt that you are real.

nda_roxybabe

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_wow-there-difference-between-snarky-just-plain-cruel-hearted?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:c6d547e8-c4c6-43f1-a157-b09a8caa1f95Post:bb9f831c-d609-40d8-8484-3196a63909c3">Re: wow. there is a difference between snarky and just plain cold-hearted and cruel!</a>:
[QUOTE]haha Im Lisa Frank? You hair looks like a Lisa Frank artwork gone bad. and I never meant to insult ANYONE personally! Thats not what this thread was about! But whatever!
Posted by futurepivko[/QUOTE]
Okay, okay, I really want to like you but dude, don't say childish stuff like this. Just laugh this all off and come back another day. Normally.

MarriedInAFever

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_wow-there-difference-between-snarky-just-plain-cruel-hearted?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:c6d547e8-c4c6-43f1-a157-b09a8caa1f95Post:bb9f831c-d609-40d8-8484-3196a63909c3">Re: wow. there is a difference between snarky and just plain cold-hearted and cruel!</a>:
[QUOTE]haha Im Lisa Frank? You hair looks like a Lisa Frank artwork gone bad. and I never meant to insult ANYONE personally! Thats not what this thread was about! But whatever!
Posted by futurepivko[/QUOTE]

Uh, seriously? Lamest. Comeback. Ever.

beatlesgirl25

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_wow-there-difference-between-snarky-just-plain-cruel-hearted?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:17Discussion:c6d547e8-c4c6-43f1-a157-b09a8caa1f95Post:019a4fa3-bd3c-4ed3-85ad-f3b5cd52733a">Re: wow. there is a difference between snarky and just plain cold-hearted and cruel!</a>:
[QUOTE]I just said theres a difference between being snarky and having your wedding "your way" (sorry didnt mean to sound like Burger King) and being just plain mean and cruel...thats all. <strong>I never meant to get insulted, called names, or talked too like a 5 year old for actually having a heart and caring...I'm sick of the FMIL insults. That has nothing to do with rainbows and puppies either!</strong>
Posted by futurepivko[/QUOTE]

This is hilarious. I must be in a time warp because I don't remember any of this happening. Are you sure you're on the right board?

Blueyed228

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_wow-there-difference-between-snarky-just-plain-cruel-hearted?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:c6d547e8-c4c6-43f1-a157-b09a8caa1f95Post:0ea62070-8ee9-4416-ac2e-0e797a32fdf5">Re: wow. there is a difference between snarky and just plain cold-hearted and cruel!</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: wow. there is a difference between snarky and just plain cold-hearted and cruel! : whoa. hold up please! getting insulted first by being called Lisa Frank" and getting told to "buck up" wasn't too cool either. The attacks came on first...and no, no one agreed instead they said that I needed to "buck up" and that because it was said behind her back it was pretty much ok.
Posted by futurepivko[/QUOTE]

You're a moron.  Lisa Frank was in reference to the rainbows and puppies and fluff that you seem to be interested in.  Not your appearance.  Has anyone actually ever seen Lisa Frank??

september's bride

Pivko - it's great that you love your FMIL and think she's a fabulous person, but not everyone feels that way about their inlaws. Your reality doesn't translate to everyone on here, so give it a rest FFS. And if you're so tenderhearted that some FMIL trash-talking is going to make you cry, you're in for a very rude awakening one day when that bubble you live in bursts.

Blueyed228

And my hair is FABULOUS.  I saw your pics hunny.  If I were you I would not be throwing hair stones.

KThxBye