AATB post 2

betrothed123

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[QUOTE]Never have I ever been dubbed "the nice one." Ever in my life.
Posted by zippityb[/QUOTE]
You can sit on the bitchy bench with me if you want, but you're going to have to step up the bitchiness factor a bit.

Starmusica

ok I am posting here because I was saying all this off SB and it belongs here.

I LOVE all the old regs (CEW, etc) and I think you guys are hilarious and honest. You jump on the right things a lot of the time. But honesty? Some of it is just crap. AATB is just who she is. She is nice. She welcomes people. Thats her. She has never done anything for us to think thats NOT her. So why attack her? Its pointless.

I feel like we need people to start randomly posting here just to entertain everyone. its a little insane.

edit: spelling issues from fast typing.

zippityb

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AATB post 2 : You're the witty one.
Posted by Anysunrise[/QUOTE]

I got nominated for "most witty" my senior year of high school, but I didn't win. <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-cry.gif" border="0" alt="Cry" title="Cry" />

And now B doesn't think I'm bitchy enough. <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-cry.gif" border="0" alt="Cry" title="Cry" /><img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-cry.gif" border="0" alt="Cry" title="Cry" />

kimheartsscott

SHOTS SHOTS SHOTS SHOTS SHOTSSHOTS.

[Deleted User]

Who is attacking anyone? I'm not attacking. I'm just having a conversation.

Anysunrise

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AATB post 2 : I got nominated for "most witty" my senior year of high school, but I didn't win. And now B doesn't think I'm bitchy enough.
Posted by zippityb[/QUOTE]

Go for a double whammy with "bitch wit".

Starmusica

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[QUOTE]Who is attacking anyone? I'm not attacking. I'm just having a conversation.
Posted by cew515[/QUOTE]

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</div><div>ok point. I should have said accusing her of being false. I dunno.. I am just getting tired of this stuff. I feel like lately anyone who wasn't here back when "all the regs" were are damned if we do and damned if we don't.</div>

AllAboutTheBenjamin

My favorite LMFAO song is "I'm in Miami Bitch."  That base line is damn catchy.

LessThanZero

This is getting intense.

You know things are just not right when zippity has 3 crying emoticons in one post.

kimheartsscott

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AATB post 2 : Go for a double whammy with "bitch wit".
Posted by Anysunrise[/QUOTE]

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</div><div>I like this.</div>

betrothed123

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AATB post 2 : I got nominated for "most witty" my senior year of high school, but I didn't win. And now B doesn't think I'm bitchy enough.
Posted by zippityb[/QUOTE]
B-b-b-b-but you said you don't like being called a bitch.  I was just trying to placate you ;)

And yeah, there's no attacking.  I think many of you take the knot way too seriously.  I guess we could just all keep our thoughts to ourselves, but that kind of defeats the purpose of being on a message board, doesn't it?  It would be even deader around here if we did that.

MeaghanandMichael

::Pokes thread with stick::

Life on the boards!! Yay!!

zippityb

I'm in a categorical limbo. But enough about me.

Anysunrise

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[QUOTE]This is getting intense. You know things are just not right when zippity has 3 crying emoticons in one post.
Posted by LessThanZero[/QUOTE]


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Starmusica

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AATB post 2 : B-b-b-b-but you said you don't like being called a bitch.  I was just trying to placate you ;) And yeah, there's no attacking.  I think many of you take the knot way too seriously.  I guess we could just all keep our thoughts to ourselves, but that kind of defeats the purpose of being on a message board, doesn't it?  It would be even deader around here if we did that.
Posted by betrothed123[/QUOTE]

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</div><div>no I agree there. I don't want any fake validation. I guess my point is I don't think AATB is fake. The only reason to post here is to be honest with one another... I guess I just don't agree with you guys on this point. like at all.</div>

BecW2be

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[QUOTE]Thanks, Bec.  I try :) Why don't you think I'm genuinely nice?
Posted by AllAboutTheBenjamin[/QUOTE]

It's not that I don't think you are genuiinely nice. I think you are, but you go further than "genuinely nice" sometimes to this odd, almost two-faced nice. Like calling yourself too nice, but at the same time love your mom when she's bullying on your behalf and then asking people to bitch slap your mother when she's bullying you. It makes my head tilt a bit.

MISSCOURTNEY makes my blood boil, so I stayed out of her WR threads. What I didn't do was defend her or bash her according to the vibe in her work related threads, and then go gush over her in her WR ones. You can be consistent in how you treat people without taking it too far in either direction.

[Deleted User]

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AATB post 2 : ok point. I should have said accusing her of being false. I dunno.. I am just getting tired of this stuff. I feel like lately anyone who wasn't here back when "all the regs" were are damned if we do and damned if we don't.
Posted by Starmusica[/QUOTE]

But this is the whole thing. It's okay for us not to always agree. It's okay for us to talk about whether or not the niceness is 100% genuine. No one is being mean. We are just being honest. I don't have to love everyone on here to appreciate what they bring to the table. It's like some of you don't understand that talking about this stuff doesn't mean that we hate each other. It just means we are different.

And I'm not accusing her of being false. I'm saying that the fact that she is so quick to stick up for people and be the peacemaker is less than genuine. Because it seems that way to me.

kimheartsscott

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[QUOTE]My favorite LMFAO song is "I'm in Miami Bitch."  That base line is damn catchy.
Posted by AllAboutTheBenjamin[/QUOTE]

<div>Do they ever say "I'm in the valley" or is that just a special version for Arizona/California/valley places?  Because all I ever heard on the radio was "I'm in the valley TRIIIIIICK!"</div>

LessThanZero

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AATB post 2 :
Posted by Anysunrise[/QUOTE]


He p-p-punted Baxter! The man, the man with the motorcycle, he punted BAXTER!!!

rhodesign

Star, you said it better than I was thinking it.
I'm all for bringing the harsh honesty when warranted, but yeah--people seem to be gunnin' for criticism lately whether it's being too nice or not nice enough.

Are we that cynical in life and as a society that we can't trust the sincerity of someone's pleasant demeanor? Have we become so jaded? I have a dream...can't we all just get along, etc.

Starmusica

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AATB post 2 : It's not that I don't think you are genuiinely nice. I think you are, but you go further than "genuinely nice" sometimes to this odd, almost two-faced nice. Like calling yourself too nice, but at the same time love your mom when she's bullying on your behalf and then asking people to bitch slap your mother when she's bullying you. It makes my head tilt a bit. <strong>MISSCOURTNEY makes my blood boil, so I stayed out of her WR threads. What I didn't do was defend her or bash her according to the vibe in her work related threads, and then go gush over her in her WR ones. You can be consistent in how you treat people without taking it too far in either direction.</strong>
Posted by BecW2be[/QUOTE]<div>
</div><div>I know you weren't directing this at me but-</div><div>MC annoys the crap out of me too.. but as I said in the AYG thread I don't see how that means you cannot compliment her. I have bashed her but I still congratulated her on that step in her life and commented that I thought her photo was nice......</div><div>
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Starmusica

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AATB post 2 : But this is the whole thing. It's okay for us not to always agree. It's okay for us to talk about whether or not the niceness is 100% genuine. No one is being mean. We are just being honest. I don't have to love everyone on here to appreciate what they bring to the table. It's like some of you don't understand that talking about this stuff doesn't mean that we hate each other. It just means we are different.<strong> And I'm not accusing her of being false. I'm saying that the fact that she is so quick to stick up for people and be the peacemaker is less than genuine. Because it seems that way to me.</strong>
Posted by cew515[/QUOTE]

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</div><div>I am willing to agree to disagree on this point. I do agree we should be honest... sometimes I just think the honesty here can be a bit harsher than is necessary to get the point across. Maybe I have been in law school so long I have been turned into a PC monster.</div>

reddy123

So, I feel like people keep getting flamed for being nice, and it just seems so petty. I am honestly a nice and cheerful person and I am genuine with my posts, even when they are cheesy and I wonder if I belong here sometimes.

I've seen people get flamed for everything now, especially lol's, faces, and exclamations, which I do and will continue to do. It just seems silly to me to jump on someone for an 'lol'. The only person I have questioned their sincerity or side eyed with their bubbly tone was MC. If we steer clear from that level I think we are okay.

betrothed123

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AATB post 2 : I know you weren't directing this at me but- MC annoys the crap out of me too.. but as I said in the AYG thread I don't see how that means you cannot compliment her. I have bashed her but I still congratulated her on that step in her life and commented that I thought her photo was nice......
Posted by Starmusica[/QUOTE]
Look at it this way:

Let's pretend I jumping down your throat <strong>every time </strong>you post<strong> </strong>something.  It doesn't matter what it's about.  I just flip my shiit on you.  Now let's say you post an AW thread and I come in all sugary sweet to congratulate you, and those are the first nice words I've ever said to you.  Do you honestly believe that would be genuine?  That's what some people did with MC.

And now I'm heading out to dinner, but I'll try to revisit this thread when I get back.  I promise I'm not just ignoring any responses I may get.

reddy123

Okay, I lie, I've also side-eyed mica for being a little bubbly, but I think she has said that is 'her'.

Starmusica

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AATB post 2 : Look at it this way: Let's pretend I jumping down your throat every time you post something.  It doesn't matter what it's about.  I just flip my shiit on you.  Now let's say you post an AW thread and I come in all sugary sweet to congratulate you, and those are the first nice words I've ever said to you.  Do you honestly believe that would be genuine?  That's what some people did with MC. And now I'm heading out to dinner, but I'll try to revisit this thread when I get back.  I promise I'm not just ignoring any responses I may get.
Posted by betrothed123[/QUOTE]

<div>
</div><div>touche.</div>

AllAboutTheBenjamin

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: AATB post 2 : It's not that I don't think you are genuiinely nice. I think you are, but you go further than "genuinely nice" sometimes to this odd, almost two-faced nice. Like calling yourself too nice, but at the same time love your mom when she's bullying on your behalf and then asking people to bitch slap your mother when she's bullying you. It makes my head tilt a bit. MISSCOURTNEY makes my blood boil, so I stayed out of her WR threads. What I didn't do was defend her or bash her according to the vibe in her work related threads, and then go gush over her in her WR ones. You can be consistent in how you treat people without taking it too far in either direction.
Posted by BecW2be[/QUOTE]

I hear you.  Honestly though, all anyone can know about the relationship I have with my mother is what I post on these boards.  Believe you me - no one wants to know the entirety of it.  I neither have the time or patience, and it would be way too long for anyone to read anyway :)

Although I do have to point out that I never asked anyone to bitch slap my mother.  Jen jokingly offered to do so, and I jokingly accepted.  Obviously - I don't want anyone to haul off and smack her.

But hey, I mean, if people don't think I'm genuinely being nice, then that's their opinion, and there's not much I can do about that.  I'm not going to try too much to defend myself because people are going to form their opinions however they wish, and that's fine.  I'm cool with it.

reddy123

I kinda agree with B about MC, but I've just decided I don't want to post in her threads anymore. Feeding the attention, methinks.

staceytaylor0704

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[QUOTE]Okay, I lie, I've also side-eyed mica for being a little bubbly, but I think she has said that is 'her'.
Posted by reddy123[/QUOTE]

Mica gets on my nerves. I generally just ignore her.

Starmusica

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[QUOTE]I kinda agree with B about MC, but I've just decided I don't want to post in her threads anymore. Feeding the attention, methinks.
Posted by reddy123[/QUOTE]

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</div><div>I didn't really notice if people were all over her photos. I just complimented her because she may be BSC half the time- but she looked nice. </div>