I want to know everyone's opinion on this. Is the point of the parents gift at a wedding to say 'thanks for raising me and being great parents" OR "thanks for all your help with the wedding" OR "thanks for raising me, all your help with the wedding and being great parents'?
I ask because my parents have not contributed what-so-ever whether it be financially, with opinions or suggestions, nothing, they don't even ask about the wedding At ALL. While FI's parents, although not financially they have helped in other ways.
Also, are parents gifts really necessary?