This is from TN but I have been thinking about it too lately

ricksang

Do you hate anyone? You know how people say hate is a strong word and that you shouldn't hate anyone? I think it's a bunch of horseshit and yes, I do hate someone (s).


Judge me I don't care!


So do you hate anyone?

brandichamberlain

There is one person I hate.  I used to work with her and she caused drama constantly with everyone there.  She just got married for the third time and at her bachelorette party she cheated on her FI.  I have no respect for her because she lies constantly, starts trouble, and is a really bad person with no morals.  Just thinking about it makes my blood boil.

Blueyed228

I love you ricks.

ricksang

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[QUOTE]I love you ricks.
Posted by Blueyed228[/QUOTE]
I love you too. For real.

Nebb

I hate my cousin. She is a total C. Ontop of many things we found out after my grandmother died that the reason she was always hanging around was because she had talked my grandmother into signing all of her retirement cheques over to her. She was fucking scamming my dying grandmother. Id punch her in her fat face if I ever saw her again, but we dont mix company.

ricksang

Nebb I'd hate her too.

Brandi, I hate people like that.

Blueyed228

I dont see an issue with hating people.  Some people are really hate-able.

dmiller9274

Hate is a pretty strong word to me, but the actions of some people totally warrant hate in my book. 

ricksang

All these people sound like hateables.

[Deleted User]

I hate plenty of people, but most of my hate is reserved for the people who hurt me as a child and adult. I wish death on them, and I don't give a fvck what kind of person it makes me.

But most of the time, people just annoy me, not enough to hate though.

AllAboutTheBenjamin

Oh I'm a total hater.  I hate lots of people.  Mostly people I've met professionally, lol,  but a few personally too.  For example I really hate Ben's best friend's ex-fiancee.  That cuunt can go suck a bag of herp diicks for all I care, although she's already a massive slut so she's probably doing that already.

anna.oskar

I don't know that I necessarily hate anyone but maybe there is an ex-bf who better hope he's not using a crosswalk while I'm stopped at the light.  I may very well accelerate "accidentally".

[Deleted User]

There are 2 people from my past that I truly hated. But, that's in the past I guess. Currently, not really. But I have various levels of dislike for people, ranging from "meh" to "loathe".

LetsHikeToday

I really hate, hate two people. They don't even get a regular hate from me. They get a double.

ricksang

Yeah I wouldn't be too sad if the two people I hated died.

KateJ10

3 people come to mind: 2 ex-friends I completely cut out of my life after they sucked balls, and one extremely BSC coworker who made my work life miserable and was a terrible terrible person. 

playtntsbpg30

I believe hate is a strong word. I do hate a few people. One being my EX, another being my one brother. I can't stand the sight of either, and I get the lovely privilege of living with my brother. When I get mad I say I hate my mom, but at times I know I don't hate her, I just strongly dislike her and can't stand her. No matter what she's still my mom.

baystateapple

I hate my ex from when I was 19.  We had a really bad relationship and broke up.  I later found out that he was cheating on me with another girl, whom he also was cheating on b/c she didn't know that he was with me.  After he dumped her, we ended up becoming friends, even though we lived a state apart.  Suddenly, I stopped getting her, and only got her answering machine.  He contacted me and said that they got back together and she didn't want to speak to me again.  In reality, she had been diagnosed with thyroid cancer and had moved back in with her parents.  I didn't find out until she died a few months later.  I really, really hate him for that.

AllAboutTheBenjamin

Bay - that is a shitty person.  Holy bejeezus.

LP11509

Bay, that's so effed up.  I don't blame you for hating him at all. 

LetsHikeToday

I guess I don't really get what the big deal is about hating some people? I guess I don't see it as that strong of a word or feeling. People are assholes and I don't see a huge deal with hating them.

[Deleted User]

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[QUOTE]I guess I don't really get what the big deal is about hating some people? I guess I don't see it as that strong of a word or feeling. People are assholes and I don't see a huge deal with hating them.
Posted by LetsHikeToday[/QUOTE]
To me, "hate" connotes actively wishing harm on someone. Which in some cases is appropriate. As someone who tends to get accused of hatred where it isn't applicable, I get pretty sensitive about it, personally.

jennamarie10

I honestly can't think of someone I HATE. Dislike, yes, but I currently am not hating on anyone.

baystateapple

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: This is from TN but I have been thinking about it too lately : To me, "hate" connotes actively wishing harm on someone. Which in some cases is appropriate. As someone who tends to get accused of hatred where it isn't applicable, I get pretty sensitive about it, personally.
Posted by daffodil_jill[/QUOTE]
Yeah I agree with all of this.

My mom gives me attitude sometimes about "holding in anger" and "only hurting yourself", etc.  Sometimes you just can't like or even feel indifferent to someone.  The bastard I wrote about above ran into a friend of mine when I was in the hospital recovering from a car accident.  He came in and visited me and it was the most horribly awkawrd thing.  I had family there who didn't know our history, and I was recovering from a broken pelvis, so I literally could not get away.  He actually had the nerve to leave me his phone number.  I threw it out as soon as he left.

kcscejal

I hate my sister in law.  She treated my whole family like shiit after my brother was killed and blocked all contact we had with their kids.  I also hate her father who told my dad at my brother's funeral "At least your son can properly provide for my daughter now."  I really dislike a lot of people, but I'm pretty sure they are the only two I hate.

ricksang

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: This is from TN but I have been thinking about it too lately : To me, "hate" connotes actively wishing harm on someone. Which in some cases is appropriate. <strong>As someone who tends to get accused of hatred where it isn't applicable, I get pretty sensitive about it, personally.</strong>
Posted by daffodil_jill[/QUOTE]
See, people accuse me of the opposite, liking/loving everyone. I don't. I don't enjoy hating people but unfortunately, it's a feeling I can't control.

baystateapple

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[QUOTE]I hate my sister in law.  She treated my whole family like shiit after my brother was killed and blocked all contact we had with their kids.  I also hate her father who told my dad at my brother's funeral <strong>"At least your son can properly provide for my daughter now." </strong> I really dislike a lot of people, but I'm pretty sure they are the only two I hate.
Posted by kcscejal[/QUOTE]
Oh my God.

That man deserves to burn in hell.  That is the worst thing I have ever heard.  Ever.

*Edit because I misread.  But they're both horrid people.

jennamarie10

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[QUOTE]I hate my sister in law.  She treated my whole family like shiit after my brother was killed and blocked all contact we had with their kids.  I also hate her father who told my dad at my brother's funeral "At least your son can properly provide for my daughter now."  I really dislike a lot of people, but I'm pretty sure they are the only two I hate.
Posted by kcscejal[/QUOTE]

Oh my gosh, that's awful. I'm sorry!

LetsHikeToday

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: This is from TN but I have been thinking about it too lately : To me, "hate" connotes actively wishing harm on someone. Which in some cases is appropriate. As someone who tends to get accused of hatred where it isn't applicable, I get pretty sensitive about it, personally.
Posted by daffodil_jill[/QUOTE]
Yeah, it doesn't mean that to me. To me, hate just means I want nothing to do with someone and really hope I don't have to have anything to do with them.

LP11509

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[QUOTE]I hate my sister in law.  She treated my whole family like shiit after my brother was killed and blocked all contact we had with their kids. <strong> I also hate her father who told my dad at my brother's funeral "At least your son can properly provide for my daughter now</strong>."  I really dislike a lot of people, but I'm pretty sure they are the only two I hate.
Posted by kcscejal[/QUOTE]

<div>Holy crap. My jaw just dropped to the floor.  I'm sorry for your family's loss, and also for the additional pain that your twatbag SIL and her father put you through. </div>

KateJ10

Wow there are some shitty people out there! 

I guess my people I hate are more of the- fuuck you, don't ever want to see your face again, so I put you out of my mind and life type people. I tend to give people multiple chances if they screw up, but there comes a point where I'm done. 

And I forgot- I actually have two old coworkers that I hate. 

The night I changed my facebook status to engaged, the one girl wrote on my engaged post: "Congrats! I guess the pressure the girls in the lab were putting on him finally paid off!"

It was meant to be a joke because it wasn't even close to true, but are you that fucking stupid to realize no one else would know that? so- deleted it, blocked her, and will never see her again.