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Should I invite her?

The person i had considered my best friend has become so different that i am not sure if i should inviter her to my very intimate (small) wedding.  She just got married and it was horrible watching how mad she got at everything.  Not to mention, she is very VERY judgemental....some of the suggestions she ASKED me to give her for her wedding, she turned around and said that she would never do that.  It got to the point that i hated her even asking my advice because she demeaned every suggestion.  and some of the suggestions were ones that i wouldn't mind having at my wedding.  now, i don't even want her there because it will make me uncomfortable...i know that she will be judging every detail and i don't think that i can take that.  i haven't even told her i am (very recently) engaged because she kept saying, after her wedding, that she will definitely be at mine if i ever get married.  i just don't know how i can pop up later and tell her i am married and that my parents were there but that i didn't invite her since i was the only friend she had at her wedding.  What should i do?

Re: Should I invite her?

  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_should-invite-her?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:ea575401-503b-4ceb-ac1f-7ac97e42d94aPost:47cbb344-cfee-4a34-8f8e-42f39f377264">Re: Should I invite her?</a>:
    [QUOTE]I probably wouldn't. The again, my new trend is cutting dead weight out of my life and only having people who I relate to in my life. Apparantly this is me being a biitch.
    Posted by MeaghanandMichael[/QUOTE]

    nope you are not a biitch just ahead of the game...i cut two friends out this year and you know what life is much more peaceful then the drama queens....i want to have fun not go out or hang out and it's always drama for one thing or another...

    in regards to OP - give it time things can change....she may be less judgemental, stressed, what have you....or you may decide to move on for whatever reason
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