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Wedding from Hell

This weekend, H and I attended what is likely to be the last wedding we will attend for some time. We have been to five weddings this year in addition to our own, all really pretty nice. Then there was this one. She is a coworker of H's. I am glad she is definitely NOT on this site (said she saw  TK once and hated it) because I can share this spectacle with all of you. Maybe I am just being a judgmental bitch, but all I could say at the end of the night was "wow". Even H was startled, and that takes some doing. Some highlights:

1. The bride was so drunk at the ceremony she slurred her vows. I thought she was just nervous til we actually smelled the booze.

2. However, I might be drunk too if I had "friends" like hers: the MOH got up and made a speech that included a "joke" that now that the bride was married, her whore days were over. No, really she did!

3. The groom complained out loud that they had spent a lot of money on food and it looked like people had been cheap with gifts.

4.Cash bar (don't care for them and would not do it, but okay not a deal breaker at all for us) that ran out of booze one hour into the reception. I have literally never heard of that.

5. I am never one to complain on food, particularly wedding food but we had burnt lasagne. It was absolutely the ickiest meal I have had at any event in some time. I am sure the bride wants to kill that vendor. Half-eaten plates were everywhere.

6. There was a dollar dance. If you had one, well sorry to offend but I think they are dreadful-and I never see them here. The bride nearly fell down during the dancing because she was so drunk. Then again, between her groom, her MOH and that meal maybe the drunkenness was understandable!

7. The BM's were wearing orange sparkle dresses. The weirdest outfits I have ever seen on a bridal party. H never notices women's clothes and said they were not ugly so much as weird. If you love orange, cool but with the sparkle and the love for sale style of the dresses they were just plain odd.

8. The groom was seriously flirting with women. He was pretty drunk, too. I wonder where he and the bride were getting the booze since they had run out.

9. In a grand moment, a groomsman puked on the dance floor. We left about then, social obligation met.

I think we are both glad we are done with weddings for awhile. Oh, and future brides take heart whatever you are nervous about in your wedding, I am sure it will be wonderful next to this hot mess! At least her dress and flowers were nice. I actually feel for the bride, drunk and all. Sad she married an asshat.
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  • Oh wow.

    That would be enough for me. Especially the puking on the floor part.
  • Oh my word. I don't think I could handle it if the cash bar ran out of booze. I mean, you're making your guests pay and you can't even provide enough for them. Geez.
  • Yikes! I thought I had been to an awful wedding, but this is tops in my book.
  • wow.. just WOW. I sorta feel bad for all involved. That sounds terrible.

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  • Wow. Just wow. That sounds like such a spectable that it could have bee awesomely entertaining if not for the sucky food and running out of alcohol. A GM puking on the dance floor, greedy groom, drunk bride...yeah, they'll last.
  • Yikes!  That is horrible.  I can't imagine being that drunk at my own ceremony.
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  • Good Lord.  I would hope they have the social grace to embarassed, but something tells me they won't. 
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  • Wow that sounds awful! I hate bad wedding food but I definitely would have been "done" as soon as someone blew chunks. ewwww!
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  • I think the barfing was the part the got me the hardest besides the idiocy of the groom and the bride's drinking issue. I felt sorry for everyone except the groom. Greed sticks in me in a bad way.
  • i can't get past that her coworkers saw this...

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  • Wow, I'll be honest as a bride I would be embarrassed to be drunk at my wedding.

    I really hope sje woke up the next day and thought wtf did I do, because this is just beyond rude. Not to mention making your BM' wear hideous dresses, maybe she was drunk when she picked those too?
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  • Between the drunken bride, the orange sparkle dresses, the whorey groom and the pukey groomsman - this wedding sounds like an effin trainwreck I would have loved to see.  That sounds like a movie. 

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  • Oh, my.  That sounds completely awful.  How do you run out of booze at a cash bar after one hour?  Why would anyone even comment about the adequacy of gifts?  And - I can understand the bride having a small glass of wine or champagne while getting dressed, but to get completely sloshed before the ceremony?  Who does that?
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  • What time was the ceremony? Who gets that drunk before their wedding ceremony?

    There are just so many things wrong with that story. I would have left long before you did.
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  • wow.
    Did you get any pics? I want to see those dresses! haha
  • klassiest wedding ever.
  • Wow, it's so bad it hilarious.
     
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  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_wedding-hell?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:f0e77439-17df-44a5-9aef-65d716952251Post:35a80b2c-3c6d-4dde-a465-63ad7eeffb3d">Re: Wedding from Hell</a>:
    [QUOTE]i can't get past that her coworkers saw this...
    Posted by Starmusica[/QUOTE]

    Really...  Of course, it goes with what I said before - she probably doesn't have the social grace to be embarassed by the whole thing.  I'd love to be a fly on the wall when she does go back to work.  <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-cool.gif" border="0" alt="Cool" title="Cool" />
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  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_wedding-hell?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:f0e77439-17df-44a5-9aef-65d716952251Post:0bae6251-5e02-41b6-82ed-52fdc1d15582">Re: Wedding from Hell</a>:
    [QUOTE]What time was the ceremony? Who gets that drunk before their wedding ceremony? There are just so many things wrong with that story. I would have left long before you did.
    Posted by allisong23[/QUOTE]

    The wedding was at 2:00 PM. She must have started early. It was like watching a train wreck-we were mesmerized.
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_snarky-brides_wedding-hell?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:17Discussion:f0e77439-17df-44a5-9aef-65d716952251Post:9afa1eff-4abc-4531-a98e-11694a297742">Re: Wedding from Hell</a>:
    [QUOTE]wow. Did you get any pics? I want to see those dresses! haha
    Posted by staceytaylor0704[/QUOTE]

    We did not get pics ourselves, but rumor had it they will be posted online. It would be totally nasty bitchy of me to wait for that and photoshop the faces out and post them here, but don't tempt me!!!
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Wedding from Hell : We did not get pics ourselves, but rumor had it they will be posted online. <strong>It would be totally nasty bitchy of me</strong> to wait for that and photoshop the faces out and post them here, but don't tempt me!!!
    Posted by Lenore2010[/QUOTE]

    Why?  You are just sharing wedding "ideas" with other brides-to-be.  <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-tongue-out.gif" border="0" alt="Tongue out" title="Tongue out" />
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  • please please post them 
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  • Where is the pictures? :)  Wow... those are the memories that the bride and groom will hang onto... since their wedding night was a buzz, and the remembering part might be amiss! 0.o

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  • WOW


    I cant say anything else... I am shocked.. I dont know how she showed up to work after that
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    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: Wedding from Hell : We did not get pics ourselves, but rumor had it they will be posted online. It would be totally nasty bitchy of me to wait for that and photoshop the faces out and post them here, but don't tempt me!!!
    Posted by Lenore2010[/QUOTE]


    Just crop their heads out, haha.

    I NEED to see the orange spakle dresses!
  • This is seriously horrible. I do require pics though ;)

    Puking on the dancefloor? WOW.
  • Yes, her boss WAS there. Gawd, I would kill myself if my boss saw me being party to 1/2 of what I saw there.

    I may just have to be evil enough to post those photos if they really do make them available online as planned (thought WHY they would I have no clue!). The bride's dress was lovely, oddly enough. I am pretty sure it was a Maggie S., something I would have had myself if I had not been doing a DW. It was not the kind of dress that would have traveled well-to much wrinkly satin.
  • Hhhm interesting, I've never been to a wedding that didn't have a dollar dance.....guess it depends on the area/tradition
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    [QUOTE]Hhhm interesting, I've never been to a wedding that didn't have a dollar dance.....guess it depends on the area/tradition
    Posted by loop0406[/QUOTE]

    I understand the dollar dance is a matter of opinion. Even the orange sparkle hooker dresses are a matter of opinion. The rest, not so much.
  • Oh my goodness! I don't even have no words for the awesome sh*tshow this sounds like it had been.
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