PANIC! NEED ADVICE :(

deb84

Just because the mother doesn't have insurance doesn't mean the child doesn't.  I feel the same way that health insurance is a must but you are being very rude when you don't know the situation. 

OP-Please see a doctor.  There are many free clinics or reduced price clinics.  I have no idea how you got your perscription when it was that old. 

marriedfilingjointly

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[QUOTE]Just because the mother doesn't have insurance doesn't mean the child doesn't.  I feel the same way that health insurance is a must but you are being very rude when you don't know the situation.  OP-Please see a doctor.  There are many free clinics or reduced price clinics.  I have no idea how you got your perscription when it was that old. 
Posted by deb84[/QUOTE]

Please read the other responses before chipping in your two cents.  20 other people said that, and then 20 more pointed out that as a PARENT who is responsible for the health and well-being a child, it's just as bad if she doesn't have insurance but the child does. 

betrothed123

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[QUOTE]Just because the mother doesn't have insurance doesn't mean the child doesn't.  I feel the same way that health insurance is a must but <strong>you are being very rude when you don't know the situation.</strong>  OP-Please see a doctor.  There are many free clinics or reduced price clinics.  I have no idea how you got your perscription when it was that old. 
Posted by deb84[/QUOTE]
Thanks, Mom.

jennylove810

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[QUOTE]Anyone else wonder about the single mom who doesn't have sex thing?
Posted by marriedfilingjointly[/QUOTE]

Yes, as a matter of fact.

mikellshea

I have been taking Birth control for over two years now and I have never had a period early, not sure why that would happen to you. And to answer the question about skipping pills I just recently went to a check up and my Doctor brought it up to me that you can skip the week of sugar pills and move on to a new pack, She said I could do this 3 times in a row so I would only have a period 4x a year so Im pretty sure this if safe to do! Oh and WOW some of these answers to your post are so rude! Im a single parent and it is not easy to get insurance coverage people shouldnt judge when they don't know the situation, Good luck!

MrsMack10612

Agree with PP that it could be a result of just starting back on the pill and your body isn't in tune yet.

Having said that - early periods can also be indicative of other issues.  You absolutely should find some way to get checked out by a medical professional.

I have certain issuses that have caused my period to be FUBAR'd for the last year and half.  My latest one lasted 20 days and showed up several days earlier (prior to the sugar pills) and I have been on the pill for 10+ years.

Get yourself to a doctor, clinic or something...restarting the pill without medical advice is a baaaad idea.

Shaye526

I learned 1 thing from this thread:

My Mom is apparently an irresponsible person and it's really too bad that I was ever born.

[Deleted User]

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[QUOTE]I learned 1 thing from this thread: My Mom is apparently an irresponsible person and it's really too bad that I was ever born.
Posted by Shaye526[/QUOTE]

Huh?

JennaV26

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[QUOTE]I learned 1 thing from this thread: My Mom is apparently an irresponsible person and it's really too bad that I was ever born.
Posted by Shaye526[/QUOTE]

Those are two things.

jessysono

I would just like to share and old saying "If you have nothing nice to say dont say it".  I got married 2 yrs ago and got great advice here.  I saw a lot of good answers here so good luck and hopefully you wont have that monthly visit on your wedding.  Good luck!

jcaruncho2010

Jessy, you're totally right about that.  I deleted my PP for that same reason.  Karina (my daughter's name, btw) good luck, and I hope everything works out for you!

betrothed123

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[QUOTE]Jessy, you're totally right about that.  I deleted my PP for that same reason.  Karina (my daughter's name, btw) good luck, and I hope everything works out for you!
Posted by jcaruncho2010[/QUOTE]

Oh but it's too late, Honey.  I already caught it:
[QUOTE]I learned another thing from this thread: half the women on here are a little too stressed out. And betrothed, I'm disgusted with most of the comments that you have posted. I don't think I've ever read such judgmental comments in my life. I'm so lucky that the girls I speak to on theknot are nothing like you...I would've never come on here for ADVICE if I would've encountered a big a bitch as you. I genuinely feel awful for your children or your future children, and I think it would be irresponsible of YOU not to invest in their future therapy sessions starting now. Because trust me when I tell you honey, they're gonna need it.
Posted by jcaruncho2010[/QUOTE]

jcaruncho2010

Hey betrothed, I didn't do it for your benefit, I did it for the OP's benefit.  She didn't come on here to read that I think your children are going to need therapy, but hey, so be it!

Love you too Rose!!!!!!  

betrothed123

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[QUOTE]WOW!!!  HOLY WOW!!! Some people really, really need to chill and not let their fingers spill the diarrhea that is in their brain. Janet - I <3 YOU!
Posted by MariposaRose[/QUOTE]

Looks at title of board.  I think you and Janet may be in a bit deeper waters here than the CFl and SoFl boards.  This is truly an excellent way to make your national board debut, though.  Kudos.

Night_Sprite

Where did you last little batch come from?  I've never seen you post before, but you're passing judgment on regs on their regular board.  I think this is the second time today that I have to declare, jigga what?

betrothed123

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[QUOTE]Where did you last little batch come from?  I've never seen you post before, but you're passing judgment on regs on their regular board.  I think this is the second time today that I have to declare, jigga what?
Posted by Night_Sprite[/QUOTE]

Apparently this is a popular thread on the main page.  I'm fuucking famous, yo! 

<a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_florida-south-florida_feel-like-cannot-venture-this-particular-forum">http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_florida-south-florida_feel-like-cannot-venture-this-particular-forum</a>

Shaye526

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: PANIC! NEED ADVICE :( : Huh?
Posted by cew515[/QUOTE]

Well my Mom didn't have insurance when I was born, and I didn't have it until I was old enough to work full time and get it through my job.

So that makes my Mother irresponsible? Should she have had an abortion? I understand, that people should be grown up and stable when thinking about bringing children into the world. But I don't think of my Mother as irresponsible for bring me up to the best of her ability and helping me to become the person I am today.

betrothed123

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[QUOTE]But B, thinking and planning ahead are just not necessary when you have LOVE!
Posted by MeaghanandMichael[/QUOTE]

Then I'm not going to plan for our future.  Let's just go to it.  Will you marry me?  Is that the most romantic proposal you've ever received? ;)

And now H is done with video games so I'm out.  TTYL, Meg.

MeaghanandMichael

yesyes!! you!

Shaye526

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: PANIC! NEED ADVICE :( : If you're going to have a child you should prepare for the expenses.  With the great ease of getting reliable BC in our current time I cannot fathom how anyone can be so irresponsible as to not take precautions to make sure they don't have a child if they cannot afford one.  Part of the cost of having children is providing them with proper health care.  In order to do that a responsible parent makes sure they and their child have insurance.  The reason a responsible parent does gets insurance is that if some terrible medical illness were to befall a family member and no insurance is present you can lose everything.  EVERYTHING.  No house, no car, no food, living on the streets type everything.  Is it responsible parenting to increase the chances of your child being homeless?  <strong>If you think it is, my potential children are not the ones anyone should be concerned about.</strong> ETA: I hit post too soon.  It's incredible to me how you turned "irresponsible parenting" into "My mom should have had an abortion."
Posted by betrothed123[/QUOTE]


Well no, I didn't say she should have. I was asking to dig deeper and make sure I understood what you were saying. Of course, I agree with the point your trying to make but it hits a little close to home I guess. Also, this was the early 80's when I was born so it was slightly different than it is now I suppose.

I didn't want to assume you meant anything that you didn't, that's why I asked and brought up my own personal experience.

Also as for what I bolded up there, I didn't mention your potential children...Did I miss something?

SarahSmile23

how sweet. south florida is discussing some of you. i guess you made an impression!

aprovencher21

I love you B.  Janet is a bitch and I posted on the SoFl board.  They are a bunch of nitwits.  Seriously.  I hate women without brains its gross.

aprovencher21

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[QUOTE]you people are just plain rude and mean girl, just go to planned parenthood or your local hospital they usually have free or really low cost exams and they might even give you the pills for free talk to your doctor if you can because he is the best advice possible forget about these "ladies", i hope everything works out :)! and P/S all of you mean people not having a child with insurance is not a freaking sin, hopefully you will never have to go without and you the ramen noodles chick, God bless you for your hard work and sacrifice, you should know better than to judge. All of you should know better than to judge...I hope none of you ever have to go through hard times or poor health
Posted by florquevedo[/QUOTE]

I really cannot take someone seriously who lacks the ability to capitalize words or form complete sentences.

thesuninherhead

I haven't read the rest of the responses, but I skip mine constantly (well, I do three packs back-to-back and then the withdrawal bleed) and it's never an issue for me, so long as I don't exceed three packs (in which case I tend to get breakthrough bleeding). 

thesuninherhead

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[QUOTE]I love you B.  Janet is a bitch and I posted on the SoFl board.  They are a bunch of nitwits.  Seriously. <strong> I hate women without brains its gross.</strong>
<p>Posted by aprovencher21[/QUOTE]</p><p> </p><p>Yay for amusing typos/punctuation deficits at ironic moments.</p><p> </p><p>and now I <em>have</em> read the rest of this post, I just have to say: dear Australian medical system (and, for that matter, the medical systems of the majority of the developed world, but that is a debate for another day), I love you. </p>

[Deleted User]

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: PANIC! NEED ADVICE :( : Well my Mom didn't have insurance when I was born, and I didn't have it until I was old enough to work full time and get it through my job. So that makes my Mother irresponsible? <strong>Should she have had an abortion?</strong>
Posted by Shaye526[/QUOTE]

You're utterly ridiculous. I stopped reading right there. Don't be a drama queen.

[Deleted User]

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[QUOTE]you people are just plain rude and mean girl, just go to planned parenthood or your local hospital they usually have free or really low cost exams and they might even give you the pills for free talk to your doctor if you can because he is the best advice possible forget about these "ladies", i hope everything works out :)! and P/S all of you mean people not having a child with insurance is not a freaking sin, hopefully you will never have to go without and you the ramen noodles chick, God bless you for your hard work and sacrifice, you should know better than to judge. All of you should know better than to judge...I hope none of you ever have to go through hard times or poor health
Posted by florquevedo[/QUOTE]

Why does everything you post look like a poem? It doesn't rhyme. Or really make any sense, so I'm confused.

betrothed123

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[QUOTE]I love you B.  Janet is a bitch and I posted on the SoFl board.  They are a bunch of nitwits.  Seriously.  I hate women without brains its gross.
Posted by aprovencher21[/QUOTE]
I read your post over there.  You rock <3.

Angrytomato

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J&K10910

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[QUOTE]/popcorn
Posted by Angrytomato[/QUOTE]

Um...ok?