My fiance and I proposed on March 13, and our wedding is on April 18. (It's complicated but thankfully is NOT due to me being knocked up!)
Anyway I am so stressed! We have managed to find a ceremony location, prepare a reception, hire a DJ (300$), and I've bought a dress (250$) and shoes (40$), and most of our families (coming from 3 different continents) can attend.
We are now arguing over little things, like having his sister be a bridesmaid - he didn't want to pay 85$ for her bouquet. He thinks that me having a trial hair/makeup is frivolous. He doesn't want to hire a videographer to show the video to the people who can't attend. My parents are giving us easily enough money to cover the wedding AND a celebration in my hometown but he wants to save it all for the honeymoon. (Keep in mind that his parents also gave us some money, and soon I will be able to get a decent job, and his job is well-paying too.) He also insisted on a more expensive ceremony location but is freaking out over an 85$ bouquet for his sister (we are stuck paying their prices) and the videographer.
Am I being ridiculous or is he or both of us?