I finally found invites I liked and put all the information in them to order. There they sat in checkout for 3 weeks. I felt like I couln't order them because, "what if we had to change the date or what if something happens?" In my little mind I felt like the dress I could take back or the florist I could cancel, but the invites with the actual date on them made the whole wedding very real. So I finally pushed the purchase button yesterday and they are on their way. I guess it's official I'm getting married LOL.