Hi my name is Shaquan and my fiance' and I will be getting married on August 4, 2012. I don't know where to begin.......we have the place where we will like to have our wedding and reception, so I reached out and contacted the establishment and tomorrow i will call them to set up an appointment so him and I can sit down and discuss the price and have a tour. But I was also looking at a backup venue cause it's alway's good to have a plan b.......I am a little confused being's though this is my 1st and last wedding......should i send out save the dates or not????? or just send out the wedding invitations?????? I would love to have a wedding planner so I am going to speak with him about that because I have never planned a wedding before. People has said that they would help me plan everything especially my Pastor but I just don't know where to begin. Please help a nervous fiance'