Hey everyone! So my fiancé and I have been engaged for about a month now and after going back and forth between running away to Vegas and having a local wedding, we've decided to hold our wedding locally on Aug 18, 2012. We have so many things we want to do and I am finding it SOOO overwhelming!!! Especially thinking about the budget and spending 15-20,000 on ONE DAY! I mean I am excited and I know it will be amazing and you only do it once, but it just seems like SO much to me and I can't believe we are going to spend so much on it. I would love to just run away and elope but that's not in the cards. How do you handle the stress of planning your weddings and budgets?