just got an aggravating text- asking for invite

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lat night I got a text from a girl that i knew in high school. We reconnected a few years ago and i see her once, at most twice a year at parties. I went on a double date with her a few months ago and she totally ditched us (after we drove na hr to see her) and said she was "all set" with us babysitting and now wnated alone time with the guy (we set her up w him). We drove home after what was an awkward situation, and I havent seen her twice and we have texted once since then

She is a lot of fun to hang with, but can be rather wild and wants to party all the time, and that ship has sailed for me back in college and the few years following it.

My fiance isnt really all that fond of her and we decided not to include her in our wedding GL.

LAst nigt i got a text from her "Hey. I never got your save the date. WTF where is it?!"

then she texted my MOH "Hey did J send out her save teh dates. I didint get one. I better be incluided "

I never texted her back.
Should I just not respond. Or  just let it be?
I kind of feel like this doesnt make me WANT to invite her even MORE because if she was a friend that really cared about me she wouldnt send me a text that she knows would upset me and make me stressed out when i already have a lot of plates in the air!