say something or let it go?

loveypants

Y'all might remember that I was having a really hard time getting my bridesmaids to buy their dresses.My matron of honor was awesome and kinda took over getting the girls to do it.  She facebooked all 4 of the other girls and only got 1 response.She then text the 3 girls that didn't answer the facebook about a week later.  Still no response from any of them!  She waited a week and text them again. Shocker, no response.  One of my bridesmaids text her back a day later and said "I went and got the dress. So no need to keep texting me anymore"My matron of honor was like "whoa, that was kinda rude".  And I was kinda put off by it also.  If she had responded to the email or the texts, then my MOH wouldn't have been still texting her.Do I say something to her or let it go?

cassandraann24

Thats pretty rude, but I would probably just let it go because it will just add stress to you.

Donnaaries

I would let it go.  It's oorderline rude, but it's hard to read tone in a text message (why I prefer phone calls).  Maybe she just meant "hey I know we're all slackers, but I finally did go get my dress.  No need to send me any more notices, just send them to the other slackers." I mean, the good thing is that she got her dress, right?  No need to stir up drama.

fallbride1109

Let it go.  At this point, concentrate on the things that are important, like the girls that don't even have their dress yet.  Those girls should be getting texts!

emimayor

Aggree with PP. I know how bad you probably want to say something, but let it go and move on. These girls will get married one day...and we all know what karma is..

Terriniski

I'd let it go.  I could read it either as snarky or as "no need to worry anymore."  So think positively and assume that it wasn't intended to be rude.

almoyo

I'd let it go... Annoyed or not, your BM got the point and bought the dress. Sounds like a success!