I sat down with FI last night and walked him through the timeline for the day before and day of the wedding and made sure he was in agreement with how it would work, and that he was ok being in charge of certain things. I also showed him our "to-do" list prior to the wedding broken down by who was "to-do" what and he basically had started all his items already and had no problems being in charge of what I assigned him. I like knowing that we're on the same page, that his items will get done, and really, that we have so few items left with 6 weeks to go!