August 2012 Weddings

FSS and FSD Update

I have written a couple times on my Futer step children and we finally heard from Fi' son...he has summer school so cant make it out, Fi texted his ex and she got defensive saying he doesn't call him so on and so forth. Fi does call its his son who doesn't answer or call back. The only time we hear from him is when he is mad at his mom and Step dad. She finally came around and asked when we were getting married again, so who knows...

FSD case has blown up! A little recap, we booked the wedding on the wrong weekend, and in the beginning it sounded like we would be able to swap weekends and have her for the wedding, but fi's ex is using her as her little pawn, and is now refusing, now that we are trying to get it all in writing. I am pretty confident that my bm told her when we are getting married, because this is the same girl that told her when her daughters were at my baby shower (I am really regretting even having her in the wp now, it took me forever to weigh out having her vs not having her) I guess our 15 year "friendship" made me out weigh all of the negatives....

So from the sounds of it this morning, none of fi's kids will be at the wedding :( we talked about moving the date, I checked with vendors and they are all obviously booked the date we would move the wedding to...and we have 240 custom shot glasses with the 11th...

I have a very heavy heart this morning...thanks for letting me vent ladies!
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Re: FSS and FSD Update

  • thoughts and prayers go out to you and your F.  Planning weddings are stressful enough, and to add the stress of the FSC....yikes.  I pray that both the children and their mother(s?) step up to the plate and make the right decision in the end. 
  • Thanks student! We are thinking his son may be able to come (heaven forbid he have to leave his gf) but the light on his daughter is becoming very very dim :( and it breaks my heart!

    I hate how women use there kids like that! It makes me want to slap them!
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    image 160 Invited
    image 2 are ready to party with there boots on! image 0 have better things to do image158 are trying to find there boots
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  • Thoughts and prayers sent your way!!  So sorry all this stress is on you, I wish your FI's stepkids weren't used as pawns.. That has to be hard on the kids.. 

    Wishing you the best of luck!! *HUGS*
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  • I'm sorry you're going through this. I hope things work out!
  • Keeping my fingers crossed! Thanks ladies!
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    image 160 Invited
    image 2 are ready to party with there boots on! image 0 have better things to do image158 are trying to find there boots
    RSVP Date: July 25th
  • Hopefully everything will work out by the time the wedding rolls around.  You have to do what is right for you and your situation, but I would lean against moving the wedding.  Even if you do move it, there is no guarantee that this won't happen again.  You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers!
  • Wow...sometimes I forget how truly blessed we are.  Our wedding is on a weekend that we normally  have my fschildren and FI's ex is even helping us out with transportation the weekend of.  I know if we had the wedding on "her" weekend, she would have no problem with us having the kids an extra weekend or even trading time. 
    I can't imagine what a parent thinks they have to gain by controlling whether or not their child attends the wedding of the other parent.  Good luck and I'm glad to hear it sounds like your FSS can come out!
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