My MOH is my best friend and I know she has always been a flake and I still love her but lately I have really needed to get out of the house to relax a little it feels like she can't be bothered. We have conflicting work schedules to it can be difficult but we try to make plans, but every time we do have plans she bails at the last minute (usually to hang out with someone else, once she bailed to go shopping with her mom). Quite a few times she has texted me that she is going out to the bar at a certain time and I should come, that time comes and goes, I am all dressed and ready to go out, I try calling her to see what the deal is, she never answers her phone so I will then send her a text and she will answer with something like "we decided to go out later instead." She knows I can't be out too late because I have a toddler who is up at 6am every day so I like to be home by midnight. I don't understand why we can't go out for a couple hours and then she can meet up with her other friends after, especially when each time this has happened she had originally planned to go out earlier anyway. Even trying to make daytime plans always falls through, she always has to go to the gym or clean the house or something. This last time she bailed at the last minute and said "maybe we can do something tomorrow" I just told her no because I don't want to make plans just to have them fall through again. I feel like it was harsh but I am so fed up with getting my hopes up and being let down.
I am so stressed out right now, FI is out of state 4 nights a week for work and when he is here he is too tired to do anything but sit on his butt and watch tv (he hangs out with his friends while he is away). The only thing I do is go to work and take care of the baby. The only time I go out is with my mom to do wedding stuff. All I want is a break but no one is around, I take the baby out for walks and stuff but it isn't the same as hanging out with my best friend. If she would just answer her phone I could explain how am feeling and maybe she would try harder but all she will answer is a text message and even then I often don't get any answer. Even if she would just stop by the house for an hour so we could talk I would feel better, or I could go to her apt, but that last time we tried that I told her I would call for directions when I got out of work but when I did she didn't answer or call me back.
Sorry for the long vent I am just so down right now, I hope you girls can send me some happy thoughts