I cannot wait for Monday. I will finally be ordering my dress. I took the advice you ladies gave me the other day and decided that if my stepmom sends me the money she will, if she doesn't it's not the end of the world. I just wanted to say thank you since I was getting mixed answers on the issue, my FI told me to ask, some friends told me it was rude so I needed to get to the bottom and go to people who are in somewhat of the same boat as me. So thank you for the advice and I will upload pictures once I go order the dress on Monday.