I love my bridesmaids to death, but one of them is always complaining about having no money. I try to be understandable about her not having a lot of money and have tried to cut corners because I know she doesn't have a lot of extra cash. The problem is, she has been the one through all the planning that has wanted to go above and beyond and do the "little extras" like getting our hair and nails done, getting the "special" shoes for her dress.
This last one "I don't have any money" has topped it all! We had planned on going to the out of town bridesmaids house for a weekend getaway and a little bacholorette party at a local free night festival. SHE was the one who wanted to go for 2 nights. I okayed it with my OOT bridesmaid and she said she could either cook us dinner or we could go to the corner deli for dinner the one night. I mentioned this to "No Money BM" and her response was, "well, I will have to see how much money I have" WTH!?!?! I'm sorry, but if you agreed to a weekend getaway (that wasn't going to cost much) & didn't have to pay for gas to get there (I'll be driving) I would at least think I would have put a few dollars away when I found out we were going (which was over a month ago!)
I'm just venting, but it really PO's me to NO end that it is all the time the excuse, of "I have no money". So, I guess I will be taking food for the weekend, just because I don't feel it is right that we show up to the OOT bridesmaids house for the weekend empty handed.
UGH!, But, I'm gonna keep on smiling cause we only have 19 days until we say "our do's" and in the end it really won't matter!