August 2012 Weddings

Bridesmaid Vent.....UGH! UPDATE at bottom

From the beginning when I picked who I wanted to stand with me, my MOH was a no brainer, and so was one of my bridesmaids (SIL) my third bridesmaid, I really thought about, because the one I had in mind(and chose) I knew would just cause a mess.

We picked dresses, and the night we picked them my MOH and SIL ordered and have there dresses. I was talking to my third bridesmaid about the 1st dress fitting appointment in June and she got upset because the seamstress was charging just about the same amount as the contractor they had working on there house, which she charges $25 an hour, it's actually pretty reasonable because she can get alot done in that first hour.

She hasn't ordered her dress yet, in fact she forgot all about it until i mentioned it to her a second time. I made sure that these dresses were affordable for them, because my SIL and brother have to pay for tuxs as well as there whole family is in the wedding.

She still has yet to order the dress (to my knowledge) BUT they can consider getting another dog after they had to return the first TWO that they tried, 1 was from the shelter and too dirty for her (did i mention she has OCD) and the other was a puppy and they just had there second child who was a premie. The dog is amazing the first couple days, then when she realizes her husband isn't helping    (he works at the mines) she gets upset because she can't handle a 3 year old, a 11 month old and dog (stay at home mom)

I knew she was going to be trouble from the beginning but this is ridiculous!! Fi isn't happy with her being in the wp, but we have been friends since elementary school (my mom was even shocked that I picked her because of all the drama she causes)

I guess my vent is over, I will just have to wait and see if she shows up I guess. That's all I can do.  I am not trying to be bridezilla or anything I just wish she didn't have such a poor me attitude....Vent Over :)
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Re: Bridesmaid Vent.....UGH! UPDATE at bottom

  • And they bought another dog....a puppy to be exact....
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    image 2 are ready to party with there boots on! image 0 have better things to do image158 are trying to find there boots
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