August 2012 Weddings

Need some advice....PLEASE!!

So a few months ago I thought I had my bridesmaid situation all figured out. Now I'm hitting a little bit of a bump in the road. Here is my dilema......I have already asked my 2 cousins and best friend since one is in Switzerland and one is in VA I asked them while they were here visting. That's not the problem though.....the other 3 girls I was going to ask are some of my best friends. 2 of the them there is no doubt in my head at all that I want them to be a part of my wedding, it's the 3rd that I'm having a hard time with. We were very close and over the course of the last few months we have severly drifted apart. Don't get me wrong when our group of friends all get together, everything is fine. It's just we don't talk really anymore.....I call her and don't hear back and I'm always the one to iniate conversation weather it's via text or phone call. I understand that we are both very busy right now.....I'm working 60 hours a week and she is a counselor at a summer camp. But at the same time I feel like if I can make time working double what she does in a week.....why can't she? She also knows that I wanted her to be a part of my bridal party. So now I'm completely stuck and not sure what to do, since I'm questioning having her in the bridal party :(

Sorry for the long post girls!!
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