We got our engagment pictures done last month and have them back already, I am meeting up with my MOH on friday to make the save the dates. I was thinking about sending them out next month so that my family that lives out of state has a heads up and my fam on my moms side also know whats going on. My cousin is getting married in december and I dont want a ton of questions at her wedding about mine so idk if i should wait or do it before for that reason too. Lastly Idk if people will lose them and forget when they get them 8-9 months before.