Ok here's the deal.. I am getting married in September and it's going to be no more than 25 people, immediate family only. It's going to be a pretty down to earth wedding. I found a caterer that we are most likely going to go through and we are probably doing a buffet. They include disposable plates, cups, silverware etc. BUT they do offer china for rental. Is it tacky to use disposable dinnerware? I want to rent the actual dinnerware but FI says that we would have to rent lots of extra's because if someone goes back up there, they won't want to empty out their plate in the trash to go back up for more. Advice needed!!