First off, I can't tell you how excited I am to be on The Knot and actually for real planning my wedding!! Although, I must say, I am already feeling overwhelmed and considering elopment, ha ha. I am marrying my best friend and could not be more happier.
Last night we hit our first major snafoo and we don't even have a venue yet! Ha! Last night we were at dinner with two of our guy friends and all they did was talk about the wedding the whole time. Well the topic of the cake came up and Blake announced that he wanted his 12 year old sister to design and pick the cake. I already have his sister as a bridesmaid and love and adore her but.... I just can relinquish that element of the wedding. He then got upset in the car saying that I was trying to say that she has bad taste, which is not true at all, but she still has a 12 year old's taste! She did design her oldest sister's cake and it was a very sweet gesture but it was also at a resort where they designed and picked the flavors the day before. He wouldn't even talk to me the rest of the night and I suggested that maybe we narrow the options down and have her help us from there.
I think I am still at the point where everything still feels overwhelming. While I am so excited, this is the last thing I want. I already feel like I'm being torn in 90 different directions. I know I just need to breath but I hate to see him this upset but I'm not willing to have her design the cake. Helllllpppppp!!!!! Thank you and have a wonderful day!