I own a bakery cafe and I know for a fact that I'm expected to cater my own wedding, despite the fact that I neither cater, especially since I do not have the staff for it, nor do I plan on catering my own wedding.
Not only do I have to deal with disappointment from guests that I'm not creating my own food, I'm having a difficult time finding a caterer that does French vegetarian food (FI are vegetarian, along with a good majority of our guests), but I already have a menu I would like them to follow and I want their food to meet the standards I uphold for my own food. Not to be a bridezilla, but this is sort of my profession.
Where might I go to find a caterer? What sort of directories or websites would help me easily find a caterer that will fit my needs?