I'm having about 90 guests. There will be plenty of tables and chairs for everybody but I like the idea of people being able to get up and mingle during dinner, more like a cocktail party, instead of the formal sitting for the whole thing. I figure that would give more energy, party feel. So, for the menu, this would mean nothing that has to be cut or that is messy to eat. I was thinking mini/ slider size sandwiches (hot and cold),weiners in blankets, caprese kabobs, fruit and veggies with dips, maybe mac 'n' cheese bites? I want it to all go together and be filling. It seems like just a mismash. Help please.