I have having issues with my future mother in law. I sent her pictures of my dress and she responded with "Its your day and you are the one that have to feel comfortable in it." I didn't take it as a positive comment and so I asked her what she meant by it and said that to me it sounded negative. She said that she didn't mean it that way, but I don't know how else someone could even take it. In defending herself she talked about how she likes longer trains and that you should never buy a dress without trying on a million and one, etc. etc. To me, she was still saying she didn't like the dress (which is irrelevant). My issue is that she has brought her son/my fiance into the mix and tried to make it a competition between she and I. I tried to deal with her directly and not in a hateful way at all. I was just asking what she meant by the comment. Now she's on the warpath and it's all my fault. I tried to call and apologize to her for taking her comment the wrong way, just to clear the air, but she keeps sending my fiance messages like, "Oh I see you haven't called me...must be taking up for your woman." I don't know why she's being so catty. Any advice would be appreciated.