im getting married in may and have no idea how i want to ceremony to go, actually im not sure how it is even supposed to go! so im starting off deciding the music first..my DJ said he would play the ceremony music but im not sure what songs to play since im not sure what kind of music i want. ...or is it tacky to have a DJ play at your ceremony? should i have a harpist or someone playing music instead? im not even sure how much that would even cost or who to call.. any ideas or suggestions?