After spending all my time worrying and wondering where I'd go to look for dresses I have found and purchased the dress. I wish I had taken pictures of me in it, but since it was the first stop of the day that I tried it on I wasn't thinking I would find one there to fall in love with. BTW A bridal blossom off of lovers ( They've changed their name recently ) and the owner there was absolutely amazing. Not only did she give me a great deal on my gown, but she took time to personalize everything with me. She was definately the sweetest lady I met all day.
Also, the dresses there might have been less in quantity but I found more dresses there that I had a hard time choosing from than I did (or end up didn't) find at any of the other places I looked which were Mockingbird Bridal (the lady Jenny....don't get me started on how she needs a personality or profession change) Anonomously yours (Which has a stunning size 10 maggie sotterro ballgown right now for $429 instead of $1300 I'd been eyeing fyi) and Mii's Bridal.
So here it is!! Nothing like what I thought I'd like, but I'm in love. Its a Sophia Tolli.