there might be a post about this recently but I am too lazy to look through all of them haha! How early should you send out the save the dates for a wedding?? the big day is May 7th and I have only been engaged for about a week haha but I don't know when most people typically send their Save the Dates.......sorry I couldn't stand to use the acronym it just is it too weird for me saying when did y'all give your std's lol