Ok well it's not that weird but it's definitely starting to annoy me. I'm pretty close with my dad's ex wife, I grew up with her around and we get along very well. I invited her and my sister (her daughter) and both times I've verbally and emailed a STD she said her and my sister were coming for sure. And I say both times because our date was changed from last year. This isn't the issue at all btw, everyone is cool about it. So all this time I've been planning on sending her the formal invitation. When I went home and spoke to her she said oh I would love if we could go. Ok, looks like situations might be changing and she's trying to give me a heads up. No big. But she's continued to repeat this several times. On the phone, email, FB. I figured since I told her about the date and previously said we'd give her an invite anyway, I'd just send one to her. I recently emailed her asking for her home address, and the first thing she says is "Wish we could come!!" So what's the deal with the huge reminder?? Is she trying to tell me to NOT send her an invite or what? She's usually not like this at all. Does she want to avoid feeling guilty when sending in her "no" RSVP? If I can save an invite and envelope for someone else, I'll be happy to do it. I just don't know if she's trying to send me some kind of signal or something. WWYD? Send one anyway or save the invite for someone else??