Probably a really dumb question but....

roscoe4me

I have been thinking of doing our own vows my problem is I am afraid I may not remember what I want to say and start babbling....how are you doing it-are you reading from something or having your officiant say it and you repeat it?  TIA

phoeny_moonstar

Having the officiant say it and then repeat. I don't want to stutter (which I do when I am nervous) on my wedding dayl

scoetto

I wrote the ceremony, our officiant (my Uncle) is making it sound like something he would say, and we are repeating stuff. Not trying to remember anything :P