My husband and i will have been married 5 years come October 20th. In these 5 years we have had wonderful memories our first home purchase 2 babies 2 puppies car buying and we have also had bad things happen we have gone through deaths struggles even a few month seperation caused by stress. But our biggest moment has been our sadest moment as well...in august of 2011 we welcomed a beautiful baby boy who was born with a rare disease it is a disease caused by gentics nothing you can cure or fix and at 9 months old we lost him. He got very ill and fought hard for his life for 3 days. While i was pregnant and before then we talked about renewing our vows in the future, I just wish our son were here to share the memory. Im thinking we should renew for our 5 year and remember our son at the ceremony. Because of our son our marriage has become stronger and I would love to share the moment with a group of family and friends. Anyone have any opionions on this? Where do you start? should we walk together down the isle? So many things to think about that are differnt form our wedding.