I feel like i'm going to have a breakdown over the guest list. Heres the situation. My extended family on both sides is pretty big but we don't all get along so my mom has no problem not inviting all of them. However my FI and his extended family are all really close, and his mom is instant on inviting all of them. And by all of them I'm talking over 100 people. My mom who is paying for the caiterer is freaking out over the money, rightfully so. And I can't figure out how to cut anyone without being rude to family his or mine, or just cutting out all of our friends who have been very involved wanting to know everything about the planning and who are all very excited to come! My venue said it was ok to have more people then we had originally talked about, I just don't know how to cut a guest list. Any ideas?