September 2013 Weddings

TMI Tuesday

What do you and your FI fight over the most? Is it money? Kids? What to do on date night? Or maybe you don't fight at all?! Tell us about it.
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  • This is going to sound crazy but we don't fight... For the most part we don't even disagree on things which in an of itself drives me crazy because I am a fighter / arguer. Honestly the only thing we come close to fighting / disagreeing about is the whole situation with his aunt but that really hasn't turned into a full fledged fight yet... Just frustration. I keep warning him when we finally do fight it is gonna be a doozy diana
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  • The dog lol.

    I tend to be the pushover and he is well...not!  If Dexter has an accident or shreads something, I make it not that big of a deal and I get so mad at him for getting upset. 

    I have a bad feeling I will be the same with kids lol.  That could be bad!


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  • We don't really fight which is nice. Sometimes I get a little bitchy about money-related things but it doesn't last too long. I'm thankful that we are pretty good friends in addition to SO's so we don't argue too much.
  • Normally when we fight its over stupid things like him leaving his clothes on the floor or which way to take home. And its not really fighting but bickering lol. If we do fight its mostly over our kids because hes such a hard ass. Although I never do it infront of the kids cause I dont want them to think we arent a team:)
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  • We don't really fight but we do argue about what to have for dinner.  He will never make a decision on what he wants to eat I always have to decide and hear I don't want that pick something else. it's annoying
  • Ours would be money..He loves to spend money on any and everything. Me I'm the opposite I always have to think about buying something especially if it cost a lot.
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  • We don't fight either.  If we disagree about anything we discuss it and come to a compromise or agree to disagree.  Don't get me wrong we do aggravate each other but mostly all in good fun!

    It's nice to see other couples like us.  Lately, it seems everyone we know is in couples counseling. 
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  • We don't fight either. I dont think I have ever seen my FI even get mad (at least not towards me) and we have been together for 4 years! I am over dramatic and he is very patient and laid back so we tend to even eachother out. If I do get mad or want to fight, he lets me yell until I realize I am being a crazy person and then we laugh and get over it. It seems to work for us! :)
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  • The FI and I really don’t fight.  We do a lot of talking and compromising on issues like money, cleaning, etc but neither of us get so angry that we blow up. 

    Oddly, our biggest “fight” per se was arguing over the band Ween.  He loves them.  I loathe them. He was playing them on his iPod while laying in bed and I could still hear it while reading.  I started shouting at him (God only knows why) about how his music was so far out there and that he couldn't roll his eyes anymore when I listened to any mainstream music on the radio etc because some of his musical tasted sucked.  (Again, I think I was having a temporary crazy spell).  But in the end we ended up having a pillow fight in bed and it's a cute memory we both look back at and laugh. 


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  • We fight.  And then we make-up.  Sometimes the issues are resolved, sometimes they aren't until later.  It happens.  Lately we're arguing about stupid wedding details.  I want the wedding earlier in the day because my mom has serious health issues and does better in the morning.  He wants it later to accommodate our OOT guests.  It happens.
  • We've argued but not in a while.  There has only been one knock-down dragout fight and it led to a brief split, but we've been strong since.  There are mild disagreements, like him not putting his *&#^% dirty clothes in the hamper, or my constant package deliveries (oops), but it's nothing we don't apologize for -if warranted!- and move on.

    Though I do have a bad habit of holding annoyances in, hitting a wall and FREAKING OUT.  But he knew I was crazy long before we got together and doesn't engage, so I don't think that counts lol.  I'm admittedly a work in progress.
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  • For the first few years my Fi and I never argued. 8 years later we have our disagreements, but not anything major. We more so bicker about who is right and who is wrong and stupid things like housework. He says I "make mountains out of mole hills" lol That may be a little true at times. We have never ever gotten to the point where we don't speak for hours and have never broken up. I have friends who I swear break up with their boyfriends every other day! Everyone gets to the point where they don't agree with everything their FI says or does, it is just a matter of time and not everyone "fights" like some couples. I don't consider disagreeing with him a fight. We can always work through our disagreements. As far as money goes, he has not had much employment in the past 8 years due to having a bad back since he was 17 and therefore not having the work experience at 30 to find work. Money isn't everything and certainly isn't anything to fight over. I can live without materialistic things. As long as we have eachother we are happy!
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  • I am so glad to see that people do not fight I guess I just always fought so much on past relationships that i thought it was normal so i thought something was a little off with us not fighting - now i know it's not so crazy
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  • We have never fought. We have discussions and talk things out. Biggest thing lately is money. As a Union worker, he hasn't worked steady since we've been together. He decided to try and leave the union and get a job doing something/anything else. After a few months of applying everywhere, he finally got something steady, with a weekly check plus a monthly bonus. He likes it, but he is thinking of taking a job that would pay more, but only guarntee him a day or 2, with the possibilty of more (he'd work 2 jobs, 2 days a week with this option). He'd basically be on call.

    This is probably going to be a source of disagreement. Although the higher paying job is nice, it's not guarnteed, and he could possibly get laid off again. I think he just needs the steady work. We do have a wedding to pay for, and we'd like to buy a house. That's my vent, sorry for the randomness of this post/vent.
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