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Re: B&M Monday!

  • TexanTreasure08TexanTreasure08 member
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    edited December 2011
    I'm getting irritated that this hotel that me & the FMIL really liked is taking so long to get back to me & the manager told me that I have plenty of time to get it all set up. I know I have 6 months, but it's 20 rooms & I don't want to hear down the road that you don't have that many together. And I would like to get everything figured out now so that I can get my invitations done while I'm still on part time & have time to do everything! Seriously, I met with y'all over a month ago & sent you 2 emails since then! & it's not like a was being pushy or rude, I was really nice and have waited for a month!! Geesh. If FMIL didn't like the hotel so much I would move on.
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  • SoonToBeMrsHozSoonToBeMrsHoz member
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    edited December 2011
    Anna, I would say go on without her.. I wouldn't spend the money to get her here unless her presence is absolutely necessary at the wedding...

    If it's just for sentimental reasons to have her there.. I wouldn't pay money to get someone to the wedding who didn't even care enough to contact  you guys personally with this.
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  • SoonToBeMrsHozSoonToBeMrsHoz member
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    edited December 2011
    Angela,
    A month is a long time to wait.. I would call them one last time to secure the rooms, and if you don't get a response back within in a reasonable time, move on.. you don't want to work with a vendor/hotel that is already flaking on you..
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  • Tiffany618Tiffany618
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    edited December 2011
    Anna - FWIW, I agree with Kathy.   I wouldn't offer her anything if she didn't even bother to call you or your FI.... that's just awful.
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  • TexanTreasure08TexanTreasure08 member
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    edited December 2011
    Oh I got a hold of a manager on Friday, she's the one who told me I have plenty of time. She sent me some menus for a brunch & said that another person would send me info on the rooms today. If that doesn't happen I'll move on. I always say not to stick around with a vendor that's crappy in the beginning, I need to listen to my own advice! Laughing
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  • BanannaPBanannaP member
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    edited December 2011
    Thanks guys. Honestly, if she can't find a way to come down here, I'm ready to be done with her. But I know Courts won't feel that way, and if I let him, he would pay for everyone's hotel room and rental cars, whatever they needed. I know money is tight for them and if her car needs repairs it will be tighter, but it's tight for us too and yet we've managed to go to Wichita Falls for both her senior art show and her wedding (and bring a gift, too). It was the same story for the rehearsal dinner - she never told me personally that she couldn't come, I happened to see a conversation on FB with the mother of the ringbearer about not being able to go so I asked her about it. I think I just won't say anything right now and see if she ever says anything to me. And if she doesn't show up, hopefully Courts will realize that she's dead weight.
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  • TexanTreasure08TexanTreasure08 member
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    edited December 2011
    That really sucks Anna! Courts seems like a pretty good guy, I hope she makes it since it's so important to him.
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  • Tiffany618Tiffany618
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    edited December 2011
    Sorry Anna :(  I hope it works out.

    More and more I think that Facebook may just be the root of all evil.
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