TMI Tuesday

mpickl

This is a tough one... What do you tell your husband you like to do, or what is something he thinks you like to do, that you really hate doing?

Conversly, what do you love doing that your husband thinks you hate? Or pretend to hate, but secretly love?

Does not have to be sexual... Can be something like you secretly love folding the laundry... Or secretly hate watching his football videos from high school.

Whatcha got?

Jlp818

1. What do I let my Fi think I love.... Baseball, college or MLB.  It is so freaking boring I can barely stand it.  I'm in a HUGE MLB town and I just cannot sit through a game.  FI is a complete sports nut and he actually gets sad when I don't like to watch sports with him.

2. Honestly, FI doesn't fully realize my affinity for trashy TV. 

Love11506

He thinks I don't mind watching football all day sunday with him but I hate watching football but I do love cuddle time on the couch while he watches it!

 He thinks i hate to do the dishes but I really don't mind it I think it is kind of relaxing getting my anger out on the tough stuck on food.

BostonGIrl4732

My FI and I are pretty much open books when it comes to stuff like that.  If I don't like something, I'll tell him.  I don't like basketball and he knows it.  But if our college is playing a big game, we go together.  He knows I don't love it, but I enjoy the thrill of the game.  But he won't make me watch the Celtics on TV with him.  He took me to the ballet once.  I knew he didn't really want to go, but he was a sweetie for sitting through it.  He ended up sort of liking it (it was the Nutcracker and he liked the fighting mice).

We do things for each other a lot that we don't want to do and that's cool.  He knows I secretly like doing dishes.  I expect him to take full advantage when we move in together.

elliemonster2012

I watch music videos and youtube videos and listen to songs so I can "listen to the drums" with him.  I pretend to have an interest in this for him but in all reality, I just pick out the bass drum because it is loud and distinctive lol.  He just gets SO into it and it is adorable.  He was in a touring band for years and was a drummer, obviously.

He watches all of my "shows" with me either DVR'd or real time and I know for a fact he doesn't enjoy one second of that. We have multiple TVs and he even has a "mancave" but he still sits on the big couch with me to sit through Hart of Dixie

I secrectly love to practice signing my soon to be married name.  Capital K's aren't easy!!...and I also secretly love McDonald's double cheeseburgers.  A lot.  And have been known to eat them and dispose of the evidence before getting home hahaaha...FI and I are both really healthy eaters and I probably eat red meat 3 times a year except for my secret mcdonalds

GoofyAssChick

My FI and I are very open in our wants, needs and dislikes.  But the one thing that I am ambivilent about is his vinyl record shopping.  He LOVES shopping for vinyl, and does so frequently.  He's obsessed with independent record stores and Half-Priced Books.  I get bored when I go.  I find what I want and just stand around holding his stuff.  But it's also cute to see him geek out. 

My FI hates Christmas.  He complains about consumerism and how the true meaning of Christmas has been lost etc.  But he tolerates it for me.  I always tell him I'm not going to let him steal my Christmas joy and be bah humbug like him.  So we've started doing a lot of our shopping from small businesses and Etsy so we're not supporting big box stores