I just need to get this off my chest so FI doesn't hear about it and try to fix something he can't fix.
I texted my sister asking for my 19 year old niece's address since I know she recently moved into her own apartment. Ended up talking to her about our mother's bats**t crazyness. My lovely mother called my sister and insisted that she call or text me to see who I went dress shopping with. Either she didn't listen or she thought I was lying when I told her about 20 mins after I bought my dress that only my MOH was with me. I think she thought my step-mom who lives an hour away came. She then tried to make sis mad by telling her I am having 4 BMs and asking why I didn't ask sis to be one. Sis knows mom's tricks and refused to engage in the drama. Sis responded I live 1800 miles away and wouldn't be able to join any of the festivities and I am 39 with 5 kids, she is 29 and wants to spend time with her friends. (Yay Sissy)
This is after my brother offered not to come because mom said she wouldn't come if bro was there. I told bro that if she is petty enough not to come to her youngest and only non-married child's only wedding then she didn't need to be there and I rather have people who are happy for us and want to be there, no drama needed. He agreed that he wants to spend our day with us (He loves FI like the little brother he never had, they talk more than bro and I do).
Ok, end rant and back to work and reports that aren't co-operating.
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