My MOH sucks.

elliemonster2012

Ugh. 

We are complete oopposites and have been best friends for years...have grown apart a little bit over the years, but still talk daily, but this wedding is killing me.  I could go on and on with craptastic things she has done/said over the years but I just kinda deal with it.  FI and other friends think I am insane for dealing with it.

Anyways, she just REALLY got to me today.   I was telling her about this *awesome* deal I made with the wedding block hotel and that I thought we should try to DIY her card box (she is getting married 3 months before me) and I got this:

MOH: How do you talk and think about weddings every waking moment?
Me: Haha! I don't....I'm just really excited for us!
MOH:  Well it's hard for me. And I've been very understanding of your obsession, I think.  I've been trying.  Now it's your turn.  SO please, be understanding of the fact that I physically CANNOT talk about weddings all day, everyday.
Me: Ooooooooook...
MOH: I don't want you to think you can't talk to me though, let's just limit to like twice a week


WTF.  Granted, I am a little over the top sometimes and this stuff does circle my head 24/7, but if this was me...I'd just read her texts and maybe roll my eyes but just respond.  It's a text message....not full conversation.

Moral of the story, I'm happy I have you girls to obsess with

greeneyes04

My best friend said the same thing to me... my best friend is my FI Lol I do get a little irritating though even to myself when I sit and look up wedding stuff for hours and don't do things I originally planned. Just because you are all about the wedding and have plans going through your head 24/7 you still have to take time to put it aside and just talk about other things. I don't think she was trying to be rude. If you talk to her everyday just do as she asked and make maybe Tuesdays and Thursdays "Wedding talk" days. The other days just talk as friends!

TayBeach2013

I agree with pp, try to limit your wedding talk.  I also don't think she was trying to be rude - some women just aren't all wedding, all the time.  I don't say much about the wedding to my MOH/FSIL at all bc her life moves at a blur, so we tend to really catch up when we're actually talking.

Now on the other hand, my other FSIL/BM is all about it!  I tried to play it cool so as not to overload her, but she brings it up all the time and can't wait to roll up her sleeves and do some DIY.  We get together once a week or so, toss around ideas for a half hour or so and then we move on to sister time

armywifeplusthree

I often find myself always talking about it too but thankfully no one has said anything to me about it. My feelings would be hurt though if someone said that to me. Just remember you always have us !!!

elliemonster2012

Thanks girls!  I know she didn't mean it maliciously but it still was like ugh. 

I shouldn't let it bother me but it's hard!