September 2013 Weddings

Is this weird- Bridesmaids

So I have officially asked three of my closest friends to be in our wedding party. I am really close to all of them. So far I asked one to be my maid of honor but would it be weird to ask the other two to be my matron of honors? Right now the think they are just bridesmaids but I feel they deserve a better title, Ive been friends with them both for 10 years +. So is it weird to not have bridesmaids and just MOH's?
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Re: Is this weird- Bridesmaids

  • I haven't heard of this before, but I think being asked to be a bridesmaid is an honor in itself.  I wouldn't worry so much about the title. 
  • I'm sorry, but yes - if all three of them are maids of honor, what makes it an honor? That's why its maid of honor - that is a special position. Maybe you shouldn't have a maid of honor and just have bridesmaids, that makes more sense to me - they are all equally important to you and all are standing up for you.
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  • I have to disagree with PP -- I say do what you want. If you think it would mean more to them to all have that title, I don't think there is anything wrong with it. 
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  • I had thought about doing something similiar. My Maid of Honor is my sister, I was thinking of asking my best friend to be Matron of Honor.  I looked up the definition and difference and found out that a Maid is unmarried and Matron is married.  That is why there are two titles.  To me, that gave me my answer and I'm just having my sister as Maid of Honor, my other girls are just Bridemaids.

    I agree, it's an honor to be invited to a wedding, and a bigger honor to be asked to stand witness to the event as a Bridesmaid.
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  •  When I was in one of my friends weddinsg there were there were two maids of honor. Me, and our other good friend (although we were the only two people standing up on her side). but it really didnt matter. She couldnt choose between us, and we couldnt have cared less. It was easier to plan a shower and help with some of the other stuff with two people doing it. at the end of the day, who cares, do what feels right to you.
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  • Thanks for the opinions ladies, I think Ill just leave it as is. Im happy with my MOH shes fantastic and I couldn't make one bridesmaid a MOH without the other (since it was always the 3 of us together). I think I was way over thinking the situation lol!
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  • I'm having a Matron of Honor and a Maid of honor and a bridesmaid.. So no, I don't think it's weird.
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  • I have two maids of honor and three bridesmaids, so I say do whatever you want! :)
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