I'm SOOOOOO mad at the postal system! we're a month out and i'm finding out that several people have never gotten their invitations! i mailed them in june, so they DEFINITELY should have gotten there by now. we're having a VERY small wedding, so every person, especially out of towners, who doesn't get theirs in time to make arrangements makes a big difference. it's just so F'ING frustrating and i can't do anything about it! if a friend hadn't told me at the wedding shower that she had never gotten hers, i wouldn't have known there was a problem. i've been contacting people to find out and keep getting "nope, never got it" responses! i just don't get it, and it's one more thing that i don't have the emotional capacity to deal with right at the moment. i really wish i could just have a big hissy fit here at my desk. and maybe go strangle a postal employee or something (not really, but you know.).