I'm having a destination wedding in California in June. Pretty much all of our guests are coming from out of town, around 75-80 people. My MIL is hosting a rehearsal dinner where everyone is invited, and she brought up the idea of giving welcome bags there. It's not logistically possible for us to hand-deliver them. I was under the impression we'd just include some information and maybe some local treats- something simple. But she mentioned she wants to monogram wine bags to give as gifts...but just for her friends and family! She said she figured we'd do whatever we want for guests on my parents' and me and my fiance's lists. But I can't handle buying personalized gifts for everyone on my parents and our couple's lists. I feel really bad about not treating our guests the same, but I don't know what to do. I can't stop her from giving whatever she wants, but I also don't think I can handle buying personalized gifts for everyone. Any suggestions on how to handle this??
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