input please!

the.q

ok, so due to a hefty cut in our budget (FI lost his job) we were considering doing a small (7 people) wedding that was ceremony only. We have found a venue though that would allow us to do a brunch reception and a ceremony that would accomodate our original guest list of about 100 that would come to about $2000. only thing is, there won't be a bar...Do most people expect a bar if its an early wedding (11 am) or am I over thinking this?

tropical.dreams

I never expect a bar at ANY wedding. If that's what you want to do, go for it. If people don't understand that he just lost his job and finances are tight, they don't deserve to come to your celebration!

graysquirrel

Dry weddings are just fine. If your friends/family are drinkers, I might mention something about it beforehand, but if you are having brunch only, I don't think that most people would have an issue at all. 

FutureMrsPaulson

I would never expect alcohol at a brunch so I think it'd be pretty ridiculous if someone made an issue of it! If you want some kind of alcohol for toasting, etc, I'd suggest asking the venue if they'll allow you to bring in your own champagne & OJ to make mimosas! Plus, it'd be a cute idea that'd tie in with the brunch setting.

kira&jake

I, personally, would not expect a full bar at a brunch reception. If mimosas were available, I would happily drink them, but I would not be upset/disappointed if they weren't there.

midgemoto

I would not expect a bar...if possible a champagne toast or mimosas would be nice... but either way the idea is to celebrate with you and not about drinking. 

 

That is a great deal and i am glad you found a way to have a nice wedding in a transition time financially...Go for it and be happy!