I am not a fan of boutineers in general however, the gm and FI are wearing white tux's and I feel they need a splash of color. I am fine with this, my problem is my mom demanded we do boutineers for FOB and FOG. That would be fine if they were wearing suits/tux but my dad(and FIs) are not the suit and tie kind of guys. They are wearing tan dress slacks, dress shirt and tie. I think boutineers without a jacket will look weird and be uncomfortable, my friend and mom are swearing up and down it will look fine. Any thoughts/opinions/experience with this?