We just can't decide! We're in our early 20's so they crowd will be made up of a majority of people our age...band, or dj. Uffff. We want it to be lively and not some ol fogey band that can only play so many songs but then FMIL stated it would be tacky to have a dj...!? What! She had a dj at hers! Any input on what your all doing is appreciated, i haven't been to many weddings so I don't have much to put it up against.